Children are the link between parents and their love.
But there is a premise - There is love between parents. Once the love is broken , after the two divorce, their children may become a precursor to fighting each other.
Either they fight for the custody of the child, or they think the child is a burden and find ways to give it to the other party, and there is no emotion at all between them.
In Zhengzhou, Henan, a man brought his mistress to his ex-wife’s house to snatch the child. The two were so shameless, claiming that the child could only live a good life with them, but the reality was that they kept beating the child, and they did not have enough to eat or wear warm clothes. The mistress did not love the child at all and just did not want to pay child support.
Everyone has their own opinions on whether it is better for children after divorce to follow their father or their mother. The key is to treat the children sincerely and not let them suffer because of a broken family.
The incident happened in Zhengzhou, Henan. The man and the woman originally had a happy family. They had a son and a daughter. The parents were still young and could help take care of the children. It could be said that they lived a carefree life.
originally thought that life would go on like this, but he didn't know that the man couldn't stand the temptation and made the mistake of "the flowers at home are not as fragrant as wild flowers" and found a mistress outside.
Women didn’t notice it at first, but sometimes The Sixth Sense couldn’t stop it even if it came.
Men come home later and later, and sometimes they even stay up all night. When women ask the reason, they just say that they are busy at work and have to work overtime. Once or twice, women believe it.
Until one day she smelled other perfume on the man, the woman knew that the man must have cheated on her, so she quietly followed the man and found that he was indeed having a tryst with another woman.
The next step is the old routine in TV dramas. The man and the woman quickly embark on the agenda of divorce, and the man and the mistress also seamlessly connect.
Although the two of them have applied for a divorce certificate, they have never reached a consensus on the ownership of their children.
When a man wants to fight for the custody of his child, it is not that he loves the child very much, but he just doesn't want to pay alimony in the future. Raising the child can save a lot of money.
So the man snatched the two children away from him from the beginning and claimed that he could not bear to leave them. In fact, the food, clothing, housing and transportation were the worst, and the mistress was not good to the two children.
Because they are not her biological children, the mistress is very bossy to the two children, often forcing them to do more than physical work, and also verbally mocking them.
If the two of them dare to talk back or fail to do something, they will be beaten severely by the mistress. also claims that it is for their own good, so that they will have a long memory, and the child will not be allowed to meet his biological mother.
After knowing that the child was not doing well, the woman found a way to snatch the child from her ex-husband and decided to raise it herself.
This naturally ruined the husband's wishful thinking, and he quickly took his mistress to his ex-wife's house to snatch the child. A fierce verbal conflict broke out between the two parties.
In order to prevent herself from being bullied, the woman kept filming with her mobile phone. The man pointed his finger at the woman and shouted: If you still take pictures, be careful I will hit you.
At this time, the mistress walked towards the two children and wanted to carry them into the car. The woman quickly shouted to the two children: Run quickly, run away.
Perhaps knowing that they were leaving their mother, the two children cried out, "Mom, we won't leave, mom, we don't want to leave, mom, save us." This shows that the children know who is really good to them.
Fortunately, relatives and friends came to help in the end, and the ex-husband and mistress did not take the child away in the end.
"Women are naturally weak, but mothers are strong." No matter when, the child is the mother's counterpart and the weakest part of the mother.
As a father, he should be friendly to his children, but he allows his mistress to beat and scold his children. This is not a qualified father in itself and he should not have custody of his children.
In order to compete for the custody of her children, a woman as a mother can burst out with strength that is different from usual. This is both unexpected and reasonable. After all, the power contained in the mother's body is prepared for the child at any time.
