" Dream of Red Mansions " says: Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to get, but it is hard to find a confidant.
all say that the relationship between people is like a big wave washing away the sand, what is sifted out is the gravel, and what is left is the gold.
In this life, there is no need for friends all over the world. Having a few close friends who walk side by side and share weal and woe is enough to comfort one's life.
1. A friend who remains firm in times of adversity
A friend who never fails to understand someone.
Some people come close to you with nice words in their mouths, exchange cups with you, eat, drink and have fun with you.
But in times of trouble, every "friend" keeps a distance.
We are all ordinary people. Who is true and who is false can only be known after a long time. Who is good and who is bad can only be understood after adversity.
I used to think that passionate things were true, and I always thought that common things were good. But later I realized that many sincerities are all illusions.
can enjoy the blessings together, but cannot share the hardships. There are profits to be made and no advantages to be taken away. Continuing to interact with such a person is just a waste of time.
In this life, in just a few decades, you must make true friends.
2. Friends who tell the truth
In this era where everyone believes in planting more flowers and less trees, those who are willing to tell you the truth are the real friends worth dating.
After all, everyone can say nice things, but not everyone is willing to say unpleasant things.
Huang Yongyu and Cao Yu are such a pair of enemies.
Cao Yu became famous at a young age. With several classic dramas, he had a high status in the literary world at that time.
But in his later years, Cao Yu seemed to have exhausted his talents and never wrote any good works.
In 1980, Cao Yu was busy attending various social activities.
As a junior, Huang Yongyu felt sorry for Cao Yu's talent. He wrote to Cao Yu and said: "You are my most respected senior, so I must be strict with you! I don't like your subsequent plays, not even any of them."
He even dared to warn Cao Yu: "How much you need the reckless spirit of the American playwright Arthur Miller. You must not be burdened by fame and wealth, or trapped by status."
Cao Yu was shocked that a junior who was 14 years younger than himself criticized his own work so sharply.
Although he was shocked, he was also moved by Huang Yongyu's blunt words.
Over the years, most of the people around Cao Yu were compliments and praises. Only Huang Yongyu dared to stand up and warn himself. This is such a rare friendship.
Those who are willing to tell the truth, especially those who dare to criticize you when you are proud, must be loving you in another way. Friends like
are the noble people in your life. Having a close relationship with them can help your life avoid many detours.
3. Friends who will help you grow
Confucius said that there are three types of good friends: straightforward, forgiving and knowledgeable.
Being knowledgeable means being knowledgeable enough to be a teacher.
It is a blessing to have a wise teacher as a friend in life, especially when you are young.
The journey of life is not a solitary journey, but a journey together.
The famous British philosopher Roger said: "We cannot always keep a clear mind, sufficient wisdom, and rich experience in fierce battles. If someone is by your side to advise you, the quality of the decision will be completely different."
We are always accustomed to chasing and putting heavy shackles on our body and mind. Who knows that only by holding a quiet and desireless heart can we find happiness in this world.
People come and go, fate gathers and fate disperses.
Horsepower can be seen from afar, and people's hearts can be seen over time.
htmlI know the pines and cypresses at the age of 3. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
I hope to live up to the chance to meet you and be a close friend for life.
