"Husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly apart when disaster strikes."
One sentence directly pokes at human nature.
After the wave of infections, I am afraid that many couples will completely break up. An epidemic not only tested positive for and , but also tested people's hearts. The
virus is testing the marriages of thousands of people. There is no ancient battlefield of life and death, but this epidemic is exactly called the examination room of marriage.
Thousands of Chinese people have stayed at home due to the epidemic. Parents, children, husbands and wives are unprecedentedly trapped in a small space, trapped in the time of not seeing each other every day.
At first, I didn’t realize that this would be an exam to evaluate marriage. Some people said that we would get married when the epidemic is over.
Some people even say that when the epidemic is over, let’s get divorced. This kind of thing actually happened after the Shanghai blockade ended.
Getting along day and night exposes the true nature of both parties. Once the innocence and beauty are lost, all that is left will be complaints and disgust.
A woman was bedridden after a high fever, but her husband was nowhere to be found and ignored her.
"I was sick for three days, and you cooked a meal, slept until past 9 o'clock, and didn't even boil water. You didn't even cook food for your 8-year-old child at home." This is the helplessness of another woman.
"I was afraid of infecting the child, so my husband forced the child to me and beat me before I could say a few words." Which woman's misfortune is this?
"You also have today, it's not that you don't report that the time has not come yet." The man went out to be cool despite his positive wife and daughter. After a few days, he was infected and went home to be taken care of by his wife. He was beaten, scolded and slapped by his wife, who pointed at his nose.
A Beijing woman felt uncomfortable all over after being diagnosed with the new crown . She was very angry when she saw her husband who was immersed in the game. Unexpectedly, her husband suddenly felt unwell that afternoon and was subsequently diagnosed. Seeing her husband lying on the bed in pain, the woman said that she would not even take revenge on him.
Of course, in addition to the "coldness" of human nature, there is also the "warmth" of the human heart.
In Bijie, Guizhou, when the couple was divorcing, the wife was diagnosed with the disease. During her illness, her husband took great care of her. The wife said that they would not leave for the time being.
"I cried at that moment and understood a lot." After her ex-husband learned that the woman was positive, he ran more than 100 kilometers to deliver medicine.
After his wife becomes pregnant, the man lies waiting at the door with food and drink prepared for the woman in front of him. This is really a marriage of love.
True love can only be seen in times of adversity. Two people choose to spend their lives together because they hope to have someone in their lives who knows both cold and hot. They will never leave each other when they are sick and encourage each other when they encounter difficulties.
Marriage is a commitment. You must be responsible for your family and your partner, care more about the other person's feelings, be more accompanying and protective, and don't use busyness as an excuse.
Husbands and wives should communicate more and communicate more. Don't rely on yelling when things happen. The more you yell, the less and less the relationship will become.
Emotions need to be maintained, marriages need to be managed, and people's hearts need to be warmed. Fame, wealth and status are all empty, so don't care too much. Only the person who stays by your side without hesitation and asks for help is the most worthy of cherishing.
What do you think about the phenomenon of divorce after the epidemic is over? Welcome to express your views and opinions in the comment area.
