Text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Chapter01
The relationship between people actually has different realms.
The so-called "casual acquaintance" refers to the primary state of interpersonal communication. Although the two parties know each other, they do not have much contact; they can contact each other occasionally, but they will not disturb each other.
In this life, you will meet many casual acquaintances. They appear in your life journey, but they will not stay in your world forever.
If you interact with these people, you may not be so lonely, but you will not be in the most comfortable state.
In fact, there is only one most comfortable state when interacting with others, which is the gentle friendship between gentlemen.
The so-called "friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" is actually the advanced state of interpersonal communication. The relationship between the two parties is as plain as water, neither for fame, fortune nor vanity.
The communication between gentlemen not only achieves tolerance and understanding, but also creates a different beauty in the distance.
Many people may think that two people need to be together all the time to last for a long time, but facts have proven that the best relationship between people is not to be with each other all the time, but to be independent and wonderful.
Many people may think that two people need to rely on each other to show a deep relationship, but facts have proven that the best state for people to interact with each other is not to rely on each other, but to keep a distance.
Chapter02
A true friend does not insist on being with you all the time, but only wants each other to be well.
Even if two people just meet by chance, even if one day they have to go their separate ways, each other can slowly feel the warmth brought by this encounter over the long years.
The interaction between people should be pure. If the distance is too close, it will easily lose its purity.
The relationship is no longer pure, but only involved in interests. In the end, it will only be divided by interests and become complete strangers.
An impure relationship is bound to not bring you a comfortable feeling, and the relationship may change beyond recognition before long.
If it can only end in tragedy, then what's the point of starting?
When interacting with others, even if you cannot be completely pure, you should not be blinded by interests.
If you cannot avoid the involvement of interests, it is best to keep a certain distance. Use distance to downplay possible harm, so that people can get along more comfortably.
Chapter03
Everyone wants to live comfortably, but being comfortable is easier said than done?
Life is full of hardships, and people's hearts are always sinister. If you are not careful, you may encounter bad people.
When interacting with people, the most important thing is to know people's hearts, and the most difficult thing is to know people's hearts. When people don't know each other, keeping a distance may be the best option.
If you rashly hand over your sincerity, even if you pay everything for it, you will not get the same return in the end.
When interacting with others, I advise you to be cautious and don’t show your heart to anyone. If you treat others sincerely, they may just be taking advantage of you.
The best way to avoid taking advantage is actually to keep a distance. Learn to use distance to protect yourself, so that you will not be heartbroken by interpersonal interactions.
The communication between people is mutual. If others cannot treat you sincerely, I advise you to keep your sincerity.
Chapter04
Communications between people are never as simple as imagined. If you look at it with simple thinking, I'm afraid you will suffer deeply.
When dealing with people, you must have multiple perspectives. Even people with whom you have a good relationship cannot be completely trusted.
It is difficult to completely trust someone, which means you have to face great risks and may even lose everything.
You may think that you can bear all the consequences, but when the consequences come, you will find that it is much more serious than you imagined.
Instead of putting yourself at risk and bearing unknown consequences, it is better to keep an appropriate distance from others.
As the saying goes, "distance creates beauty." In the face of a certain distance, all relationships can continue to develop in a beautiful state.
Therefore, maintaining an appropriate distance from others is the most comfortable state.
Chapter05
When interacting with people, if you cannot completely trust them, it is best to interact as calmly as water.
Like a gentleman, you can live comfortably without forcing, clinging, jealousy, or scheming.
The friendship between a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship between a villain is as sweet as wine. Friendship with a gentleman brings endless joy, but friendship with a villain brings endless troubles.
Be sure to keep a certain distance when interacting with others, not only because distance creates beauty, but also because distance can help you protect yourself well.
Maybe you haven't made such a friend yet, but please believe that in the long journey of life, there will always be someone who will make you feel not tired for a long time.
