My uncle gave me the impression that if you can be lazy, try to be lazy, do less work, and never do more. If you can get a bargain, try to take advantage of it. When you are young, you are afraid of hardships outside, so you will feel tired after working odd jobs for a few days.
raised two sons. Because the family was in poor condition, they only went out to make money after junior high school. Fortunately, the two children were handsome. He married his wife without a bride price.
Two sons are married, and each of them has another baby. It changed from the original family of four to eight, and the house was not enough to live in. I encountered a landslide in front of his house, and the government subsidized the relocation to build a new countryside.
The eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law can endure hardships and have some savings, so they think of buying a house in the city. The younger son and daughter-in-law have no savings and can only live in the countryside.
Both sons want to raise an aunt because her aunt is more honest than her uncle and is good at cooking and housework, but her uncle is much worse.
has no choice but to draw lots. Whoever you catch is, you are not allowed to regret it and pass unanimously.
Finally, the eldest son caught his uncle and the child caught his aunt, and he broke up the two old men.
The two sons arranged everything, but the poor uncle and aunt were forced to separate from each other. In order to solve the trouble of not being able to meet, the two sons suggested that the two families spend the New Year together, so that the parents would not be too wronged.
Your uncle and I haven't seen each other for more than half a year. "Last time when I called to chat with my aunt, my aunt sighed and said that she thought she could rest assured when she had two sons in her later years. Unexpectedly, she would share the joys and sorrows together in her youth and never leave her. When she was old, she had to endure the pain of being separated from her husband, and there was not even a person who could tell a close word.
And my uncle was even more miserable. She started with no idea how to cook and do housework, and studied little by little, picked up and dropped off her children to school, and also took care of the family's diet.
In real life, there are many Gemini elderly people who are the same as their uncles and aunts. Many children choose to separate the elderly in order to fairly assume their elderly responsibilities, one adopts a father and the other adopts a mother.
This method is rational enough for young people, but in the eyes of the elderly, it is a kind of helplessness.
One is raising a father and the other is raising a mother. Most of the Gemini families in rural areas have this kind of pension. Although from the objective perspective, there is nothing wrong with the choice of children, for many elderly people, this is a kind of mental torture.
is less, most cities have pensions, and two elderly people take care of each other. My uncle and aunt have no source of income. I can only live with my son and daughter-in-law. First, I can help them reduce the burden. Second, You can help share housework.
As a child, there is no problem with respecting parents fairly, but before we make self-righteous choices, we also need to consider the feelings of our parents and listen to their opinions. Don’t let the filial piety of children become a knot in the heart of the elderly.
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