Some encounters in this world have met some new people.
Some people meet again after a long separation.
One day, I accidentally met someone I knew before, or I deliberately went to find someone, or someone I had left, and came back to find myself.
This person may be a friend or the opposite sex he once liked.
I liked it at the beginning, but because of some reasons, I got separated and went around and came back to my life.
For such a person, it is inevitable that you will have some not so calm.
Memories will tear a hole, and you also need to think carefully about what to do next.
used to be too much to you, don't look back.
has come into contact with a case where a girl, when she was with her ex-boyfriend, the other party always said that she wanted to save money to buy a house and could not spend money for her. So she had no complaints and was responsible for each other's rent and expenses, and never made any requests and did not ask for gifts.
On this basis, he has been taking good care of the other party, caring about everything and meticulously.
She was looking forward to one day getting married with the other person, but later, the man had someone else outside and gave up on her. After the breakup, she thought it would be over, but a year later, the other party came back to find her and said she would be better.
People like this are back, of course it is not worth a look and give another chance.
There are quite a lot of feelings. When I was separated, I was actually quite hurt, and I saw clearly that that person was not worth it.
If this is the case, no matter how sincere the other party appears again in the years to come, it is best not to be stupid and have any entanglements with that person again.
A person's nature will not change easily. Looking back later, it is often not that he finally wants to be kind to you and wants to make up for his past mistakes, but just seeing all the thousands of sails is really no better choice. In order to satisfy their own selfish desires, people like
can come back to you regardless of their own desires. If they get it in the future, they will still not cherish it. Most likely, you will only repeat the same mistakes and become unfortunate again.
was too young in the past, so you can try it again.
is also possible. You used to like each other and felt pretty good together.
Although the other party has shortcomings, it is not so unforgivable. The reason why you separated later is not unforgivable.
Maybe it was just that you were too immature at that time and didn’t know how to deal with feelings and how to resolve the conflicts between you. At the fork in the road, no one was sorry for anyone, but they just didn’t do it well for a while, and they accidentally lost the other party in impulse.
After that, you have been thinking about it. Even if you have tried it and got some starts, you can't continue.
If you had been thinking about that person for many years, and it was a pity that the separation was once really mature enough now, then when that person comes back to find you, of course you don’t have to be shy, just seize this opportunity.
doesn’t have to rush to the other party at once, saying that they want to marry the other party, and promise their whole life. Just start with frequent chats and frequent meetings, and find out the memories of the past, and also see if the other party is still in line with your wishes.
Time never speaks, but it will really change a lot of things. Some people will gradually change over the years.
So, don’t be so anxious. Let’s talk about it for a while, and still like it, and then talk about it later. Otherwise, let’s just fulfill the regrets you once had. In the end, forget it, don’t force it.
Secret love is not clear, let’s have a good look.
is a bit separated, and is together, and then separated, and some are secretly liked by each other, and have never expressed their attitude. Before there was time for something to happen, they were all alone.
This kind of emotion that you like but have never experienced, and you have never had a memory relationship, it makes people feel even more uneasy.
There are too many secret loves. Even if there are thoughts, no one will find them back. However, there are people who will really not want to let the other party be just a knot in their hearts in the future and will look for an answer.
If the person you once had a crush on came to you one day, it would be really a good thing, but you should also be clear that although you have never forgotten it, what you have always been thinking about is actually the other person in the past.
You once didn't really understand him clearly, and at this moment, there are many gaps between you.
Press up the joy in your heart, just keep in touch with each other and have a deeper understanding.
allows the other party to no longer just live in his own imagination and in his own filter, but in his own life and in his own real world, so that this secret love can really have a beginning.
Next, let everything come naturally. Wherever you can go, it depends on each other's true feelings and follow your heart.
Some people say that when you look back and find your own people, you don’t have to give any chance.
thinks it was missed in the past, but it was not suitable, but now it is still the case.
However, some people are indeed not worth it to start over, but some people are worth it.
If the other person is really good, I have never forgotten it. After years of precipitation, each other knows more how to cherish each other and how to love each other. If you do it again, there is nothing wrong with it.
In love, no one will avoid making mistakes, and too many relationships are always full of all kinds of misses. It is certainly worthy of admiration to be able to not look back. It is willing to accept someone who comes back, which is also another kind of power.
As long as you really want to be happy in the future, whether it is a new or an old person, sometimes, it is really not that important.
text/Tan Meng
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