Recently watched "Our Year of Fighting". Putting aside the actor's performance that everyone complained about, I envy the best friend relationship between Gu Qiao and Yuan Ge.
Although they met when they were childhood, so many years have passed, the two have always maintained this rare friendship, which is hard to come by.
It is a blessing to have such a confidant in her life who laughs, makes fun of each other, and grows up together.
In fact, after graduating from university, Gu Qiao and Yuan Ge had different life development trajectories. Gu Qiao found a rich second-generation boyfriend, and after graduation, he went home to become a wealthy wife. Yuan Ge went to Shanghai alone to work hard.
They have taken different paths and represent two completely different lives, but they can still talk about everything. I think it is probably because they always maintain their original intentions and trust and dependence on each other like their relatives.
This is really rare in real life. Looking back on our youth, look at our childhood friends, how many of us are around us now? Is there anything you can talk about? Can you find any contact occasionally? After this operation of
, are you a little disappointed?
The world of adults is much more complicated. The simple and pure friendship of childhood has long been lost with the years and has grown up unconsciously. Those who have experienced this should have a deep understanding of this.
The same is true for me. Those particularly good friends in my childhood have been scattered around the world. Even if the Internet develops rapidly, it cannot save this friendship that will eventually pass away.
I have two friends of the same age. We grew up together and had a really good relationship when we were studying. After graduation, everyone chose to go to different places to develop.
We are in different places and our living environment is very different. The connection is gradually gone, and the interval between meetings is gradually lengthening.
Last summer vacation, I went back to my hometown, and fate made us meet again. We have not seen each other for about ten years. I cherish the time we met again. After all, when we are middle-aged, we always love to recall our past, just because we have witnessed each other's youth.
We hurriedly talked about our recent work and life, and then hurriedly returned to our respective circles and lived an unrelated life.
We created a group and agreed to complain about happy and troubled things in the group at will. I am very pleased because I feel that I have found my lost partners for many years.
I always find topics to chat in the group on the grounds of various festivals. I have always believed that we can talk together, even if we miss each other's marriage and children.
In fact, I was wrong.
In fact, every time I find a topic to chat, I carefully hold my phone to edit. I am afraid that if a sentence is wrong, it will hit their pain points. Their non-response gradually consumed my enthusiasm. I did not have the interest to speak actively for several consecutive times, and everyone was silent in their respective lives.
is helpless, but it cannot be saved.
I think it will be difficult for me to get them back! Those that were once unforgettable will never be returned, and even if you force yourself to stay, you will gain nothing.
No matter what, I hope everyone can live happily.
