There are many such people in life. When you encounter a little responsibility, you will immediately remove yourself and put all the responsibility on others, looking like you are sloppy and gloating. This kind of mentality of being strict with others and being lenient with oneself is psychologically called self-care attribution . It is to find reasons for yourself and excuse yourself in everything in terms of reasons that are beneficial to yourself. For example, the driver hit a pedestrian when he drove, and he didn't say he was neglecting to observe but said that the pedestrian did not avoid him, and the pedestrian got under the wheel by himself. I didn’t do well in the exam, and I didn’t say that I didn’t study hard, but I said that the examination room environment was not good and there was a noise from the car outside the window. I am often late, not saying that I go out too late, but saying that the leader is too strict. What this type of person lacks in character is responsibility. People who lack responsibility still show that they are not strong enough in their hearts. If you are not strong enough in your heart, it means that you are not mature enough in your mind. If you are immature inside, it means you have not learned to reflect on yourself. Without learning to reflect on oneself, there is no self-knowledge. People who do not know themselves will encounter responsibilities that are hindered and imposed on others in a far-fetched manner. They would rather be a turtle, rather be embarrassed than take on this responsibility without the courage or courage. I would rather embarrass people than be afraid of others stabbing their backbone. There is another characteristic of this type of person, which is that he is dark, extremely selfish, has no shame, has no conscience, and has no sense of responsibility. Not only can this type of person not only be a boss, but also an ordinary cadre cannot be competent for work that has some responsibility. Such a person never says you can rest assured, but I will take care of it if something happens. Such people who always adopt double standards when encountering problems can only engage in work without danger or responsibility. Any work that has a little responsibility is not good.
