text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
Remember in "Please Answer 1988", there is a sentence: "The so-called love for someone is not to give if you are well-off, but to give sincerely."
In the world of love, giving is a form of love, but when the deep affection in the heart reaches a certain level, giving becomes important and earnest.
The giving in love is never as good as you want, but the release after the love reaches its depth. The more you love someone deep, the more willing you will give.
Although some women do not say their love, their love is not hesitant and unreserved.
Therefore, even if you have never heard of a woman's love, you should feel her sincere feelings from her giving.
Women have always been more tactful about the expression of love. Compared to expressing their feelings directly, she prefers to use giving to prove her sincerity.
So Xiaojing wants to remind men that after women recognize you, they will take the initiative to give you three things, don’t misunderstand.
Her secret
For women in love, there is no secret to true love.
Once she recognizes you, she will take the initiative to play with her secret and leave it to you without hiding it from you.
There are many secrets hidden in a woman's heart. If it weren't for love, she wouldn't have told them.
Although she was also worried that the disclosure of these secrets would cause some harm to herself, driven by affection, she had no time to hesitate at all.
She told you her secret without hesitation, which was actually hinting to you that she had already determined that you were the only destination in her life.
Although she doesn’t know what you think in your heart, she will do her best to protect this relationship.
This is her efforts for happiness and a proof that she loves you deeply, don’t ignore it.
A woman takes the initiative to hand over her secret to you, it is clear that she is determined by you. Only by responding to her with all her love can you truly continue happiness.
Her time
Although there are many precious things in this world, the most precious thing is time.
As the saying goes, "Time is worth every inch of money, and it is hard to buy time." If you can't even buy money, a woman will take the initiative to give it to you, obviously she loves you deeply.
For everyone, time is the most precious thing. If you hadn't loved it deep, no one would hand over your time.
A woman gives her time, which means she puts her life aside. She would rather not have her own life than love you hard.
Although she knew very well that her efforts in time might not necessarily be rewarded, she did not hesitate at all because she really loved you very much.
As long as it is you, she will be happy no matter how much time she spends; as long as she can be with you, even if tomorrow is the end of her life, she will not feel regretful.
The woman who is immersed in love has long forgotten herself. Even if she is allowed to give all her time, she is willing to do so.
A woman can take the initiative to give you her time, which means she has really recognized you. If you don't want to miss this affection, then spend more time on her.
Her money
In this era of equality between men and women, women are no longer canaries in cages, but strong women working hard outside.
With her own hard work, the woman has accumulated a lot of wealth, perhaps not as much as she imagined, but it is the fruit of her labor.
Usually, women will enjoy the fruits of their labor alone, and even if they have to share it, they are limited to their parents.
But when a person is identified, a woman will become very selfless, even if she spends all her money, she will spare no effort.
She won’t care about how much money she has spent for you, but she will worry that you don’t have enough money and keep subsidizing you.
She doesn't mind being overwhelmed, she just hopes you can feel satisfied and happy.
It is impossible for a woman who does not recognize you to give you all her new money. Only if a woman who recognizes you will be so unreserved.
You may not accept the woman’s active giving of money, but you cannot ignore her true feelings. You know, this is what she has to prove that you have to believe.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
Women's efforts are different at different stages of emotional development.
When she first fell in love, although a woman would give, she couldn't do it without reservation. Only after deciding on you will she give everything willingly.
A woman takes the initiative to hand over her secrets, her time, and her money to you. In fact, she is telling you that her love for you has reached its peak and she is eager to go to old age with you.
This is a unique way for women to express their love. Although it is not so direct and clear, it is very affectionate.
This affection cannot be ignored. If a man notices a woman’s love, then use more love to repay her.
