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Love has never been a person's initiative.
Perhaps, many people think that men need to take the initiative in love, and women are usually in a passive position, waiting for men to pursue.
But the fact is not entirely true. When facing the person you like, women will also let go of their reserve and become proactive and active.
Although they will not express their feelings in a blunt way, they will hide their love for you in every little thing in life, and hope you know what she wants to you.
Love is always in two directions. If a woman is conquered by you, she will let go of her reserve and be very proactive to you.
For her, you are what she wants, so even if she is usually reserved and passive, when facing you, she will reveal traces of love in front of you and become proactive.
After a woman is conquered by you, she will have characteristics: three initiatives.
01 Actively talk to you about your worries
The establishment of feelings between the opposite sex often starts with chat.
If she has no feelings for you and just treats you as an ordinary friend, she will not chat with you often, and will not take the initiative to talk to you about her thoughts.
She will be wary of you and will not tell you about her at will, avoiding unnecessary trouble.
But if she likes you and has been conquered by you, she will trust you without hesitation and take the initiative to talk to you about her.
She will tell you her thoughts and tell you all those things that dare not say to outsiders. This is actually a kind of trust in you, and I also want you to know her further .
She took the initiative to talk to you about her worries and trusted you very much. In fact, she has been conquered by you.
02 Take the initiative to ask you out
If you like someone, you will want to see each other at all times, hoping that the two of you can stay together every day.
Perhaps, before meeting you, she never took the initiative to make an appointment with any opposite sex, but since she fell in love with you, she has put aside her modesty and often took the initiative to make an appointment with you.
When she first became unfamiliar with you, she would find various reasons to ask you to help her, or ask you for advice if you have something to ask you to get the opportunity to get along with you alone.
She often makes occasional coincidences with you and takes the initiative to ask you out, but in fact she wants the relationship between two people to develop and enter each other's life.
She took the initiative to ask you out to play, blurring the boundaries between the opposite sexes when they get along with each other, and getting closer to you, actually just wanting to narrow the distance between you.
She took the initiative to ask you out and couldn't help but approach you. In fact, she has been conquered by you.
03 Take the initiative to talk to you about future plans
In love, whether a woman is conquered by you depends on whether she has you in her future plans.
If she does not plan to have a future with you and is just playing with you, then she will definitely not go to the end with you, let alone plan you in the future.
She avoided talking about your future. When you asked about it on your own initiative, she even found various reasons to deny it. In fact, she never thought about having a future with you from beginning to end.
On the contrary, if she has been conquered by you, she will take the initiative to talk to you about her future plans, want to marry you, want to have a home with you, and talk to you about her future life.
She will be full of yearning for your future, and hope that the two of them can work harder to get married early, and are full of expectations for your life.
She took the initiative to talk to you about future plans and determined that she has actually been conquered by you.
Someone said:
"In the world, a woman's deep affection cannot be hidden. No matter how reserved she is, she will actively reveal traces of love when facing the person she likes."
I believe this without doubt.
In love, if a woman is conquered by you, she will be proactive and positive towards you.
It is a kind of trust to take the initiative to talk to you about your worries; it is a kind of approach to you when you go out on your own initiative; it is a kind of recognition to take the initiative to talk to you about your future plans.
A woman takes courage to take the initiative. She puts down her reserve and shows her love for you. If you like her too, don’t let her down for her love for you. Please cherish it.
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