text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
Two people fall in love and know each other, which is a rare fate, and in the process of getting along, they cultivate a tacit understanding of fit. Therefore, there will be a deep-seated entanglement between the two. Even if they don’t fall in love so much in the end, they will not be able to break up easily.
Many men and women will experience this embarrassment during their love period, and they can no longer manage this love. But due to the past and the proof of love, I was reluctant to say that I had been separated for a long time and could only stay alone and suffer, exhausting my passion and the other party step by step.
If you want to break up but can’t bear it, you might as well do this, and you will have the answer in your heart.
First give each other a cool-off period, thinking about it, it is just a temporary unhappiness, or do you really want to separate
Many lovers always like to fall into Cold War because of sudden quarrels, and then sulk alone. The more impatient you are, the more you can't control your desire to break up with the other person, and then never interact with each other. But when the anger dissipates during this period, he will regret the irrational decision he made.
So when you want to break up, but subconsciously still reluctant to leave, you might as well take the initiative to tell the other party, because being together is a decision made by both of you, and there is no reason why you just inform us when you want to leave.
You can honestly ask the other party for a period of cooling-off. Let’s calm down and think about whether there is still a need to continue this relationship.
If the final result is that you really don’t love each other anymore, even if you break up, you will not regret it. Then you will have an answer in your heart, and you can say that you have broken up.
But if you miss the other person frequently during this cooling-off period and think that you can't bear the pain of losing in the end, then communicate with the other person well, resolve the conflicts between you, and talk about potential problems so that your relationship can continue.
If you still can’t bear it, try to keep it again and don’t leave regrets for yourself
The most uncomfortable thing in the world is regrets, especially when you lose it without any effort. Every time you think about it in the future, you will feel endless sadness and regret.
Therefore, during the period of love, you have the idea of breaking up, so it is better to calm down and think carefully about whether you are not in love or have an unpleasant conflict with the other party.
If it is just an ordinary conflict, then just communicate with the other party and solve it well. Try to give both parties another chance. There is no need to make a decision when you are impulsive.
People are emotionally supreme. After nurturing enough affection with one person, if you suddenly separate, what you have to face in your heart is not only the pain of parting, but also the little things you have to give up when you were together.
So, don’t make a decision too quickly, especially when you still have a strong reluctance in your heart, give yourself and the other person more chance and try to regain your past feelings.
If you don’t love at all, then just separate, but if you still have love in your heart and are just tired at this stage, it is best not to give up your feelings easily, try to work hard again, try to eliminate inner unhappiness, find the happiness and relaxation in love with the other person, and return to the moment of love again.
Talk to the other party and see what he thinks
Love should not be decided by one party. Being together was the result of your joint efforts, so separation should also have a beginning and an end.
When you feel weak in your love and have the idea of being separated, it is most likely that you cannot feel the joy of being together in this relationship, and it is very likely that the other party is also retreating and no longer want to accompany you forever.
At this moment, the best way is not to break up silently, but to communicate with the other party seriously and see what he thinks.
If there are only some misunderstandings between you, it is just right to take this opportunity to make it clear so that more conflicts accumulate.
But if the other party doesn’t want to continue and wants to separate in his heart, then you can make a decision, because continuing to be together is just in vain.
Not all breakups are heartbreaking and painful.
Since the beginning of the story is beautiful, separation should also retain decency for each other. So when neither of you wants to continue, separate quietly, there is no need to force it.
Love words:
Fate comes and goes, and every encounter and knowing each other in life is a kind of fate given by heaven. If you encounter your own fate and don’t try your best to save it, then don’t give up easily, because you will never know if what you miss will be your favorite in your life.
So, when you have the idea of breaking up, but still feel reluctant to let it go, calm down and think carefully, chat with the other party seriously, and resolve the conflicts between you.
If you still want to separate in the end, there is no need to force yourself to stay, because even if you continue to be together, you will not be happy. It is better to separate as soon as possible and give each other a decent attitude.
