My father-in-law has been retired for several years and was a township cadre before retirement.
The relationship between father-in-law and mother-in-law is not very good. Because my father-in-law worked in remote towns for a long time, his mother-in-law had been working alone in the family. My father-in-law likes to drink, play cards, and fish. He has always been idle and does not seek to make progress. He has been living until retirement.
Both sons have started a family and a career. My eldest son is in another place, and we are in the local place.
The mother-in-law went to her eldest son's house two years ago and helped her take care of her grandson. My father-in-law is living a very comfortable life at home alone. During the day, I either fish or play mahjong, and occasionally dance after dinner, and my life is also very good. We visited him once or twice a week.
The situation has changed a lot in the past six months.
First I heard some rumors, saying that my father-in-law had a very unusual relationship with the same woman. We didn't care. Sometimes my father-in-law went to dance and it was normal to have contact with women. What could a person in his decades do?
Until one day, a man in his 30s found us.
The man claimed that his surname was Liu and came from Changzhou, Jiangsu Province to talk to us about his mother, Ms. Zhao Xin (pseudonym) and my father-in-law.
My husband and I were both surprised, and then I felt that the problem was a bit serious.
Ms. Zhao Xin was 56 years old. She used to be in the clothing business, divorced and single. I transferred all business two years ago and started my old age. At the beginning, I followed the tour group around the country and made many like-minded friends. Later, they lived together in groups of three or three to live across the country. Tengchong, Yunnan, Bama, Guangxi, Yichun, Heilongjiang...
By chance, I came to Hanzhong, Shaanxi. It feels good, the climate is suitable, the products are abundant, the prices are cheap, and life is very relaxing. Ms. Zhao Xin rented an apartment, buying groceries, cooking, dancing, and exercising every day, and her life was very comfortable. Until I met my father-in-law.
They met while dancing. Ms. Zhao has a graceful figure and a beautiful appearance. Coupled with the elegant temperament and charm of Jiangnan people, my father-in-law was fascinated by it. My father-in-law was obsessed with a devil and pursued it crazy...
The purpose of the young man this time was to let us persuade my father-in-law, calm down and not be confused.
From the young man, we learned that my father-in-law vowed to marry Ms. Zhao and was ready to buy a house for Ms. Zhao... The young man meant that my father-in-law might be shaving pick hot. Ms. Zhao has had three marriages and has been in business for a lifetime. She will not be moved by feelings, but she can be because of interests... He does not want disputes or troubles in the future, or even worse consequences.
We were shocked. Afterwards, we hurried to find our father-in-law to find out the situation. The neighbor said that we hadn't been home for more than half a month and thought we had been picked up. We only remembered that for the past month, he has been away every time he sees him and says he is fishing outside on the phone.
We went to the place where he often danced, and several aunts we knew told us their stories in a daze, some contempt, some envy, and some jealousy. Finally, I said that the two have been stuck together recently.
It was August and the weather was very hot. We quickly called and it took a few times before the old man told the truth: I have been on vacation in Liping Forest Park for more than ten days.
We quickly spoke to our elder brother and sister-in-law quietly. The overall plan is: don’t be arrogant, understand the situation first, and talk one by one if necessary.
I finally had the chance to block Ms. Zhang when she was shopping for groceries. Invite her to the teahouse. After learning about my identity and purpose, Ms. Zhao was very straightforward: Don’t look for me, it’s your father-in-law who is attached to me. I want to go on vacation and escape the summer heat, and he insisted on going there either. I didn't let him spend money, and he said I looked down on him. I can make it clear, I didn't ask him for a penny, I have money. He insisted on giving it to me, and he also wanted to buy a house for me. It was not me who wanted it, but he was stubborn and insisted on buying it, saying it was his determination...
Our conversation with my father-in-law was expected, and he was indeed like an explosive barrel, exploded.
"Your mother has been in charge of me for the rest of her life, and now you are in charge of it again. I make the decision of my own personal life.When I was young, I didn’t have the right to pursue what I wanted. When I was old, I still didn’t have the right to? Which law stipulates this? "
We know the stubborn man's temper. He has been hardworking for several consecutive days but has not made him feel relaxed, but he is more willful.
has no choice but to come back from other places to do work. The endings are the same, and he was kicked out of the door.
We had to do work for Ms. Zhao. Ms. Zhao finally agreed to leave here and change the place and not have any contact or contact with my father-in-law. For this reason, we compensated several tens of thousands of yuan.
Unexpectedly, my father-in-law could not contact Ms. Zhao, and knew it was us By blocking it, I went to our house to make a big fuss, smashing the house into a mess, threatening to cut off relations with us. I also went to my husband's workplace to make a fuss. We were miserable.
We knew that this was not a normal evening love. To put it bluntly, it was an extramarital affair. It was a 64-year-old, so it was embarrassing to say it. We were worried that more people would know about this, and it was embarrassing to spread it, and even my mother-in-law didn't let her know about it. We covered and carried everything.
It has been almost two months since the old man was arranged by us to go fishing and playing cards every day, which was quiet. Come.
After this tossing, we can say that we are physically and mentally exhausted.
The love of the elderly is like an old house catching fire.
This sentence is too true, and it is difficult to extinguish it when it is put out. It is already ruined when it is put out...
So, prevent problems before they happen! !
There is another suggestion: When we care about the physical and material life of the elderly, don’t forget their spiritual needs. Try to make them have a good hobby, be able to focus on it, and enjoy it.
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Recently, I heard that the old man tried every means to contact Ms. Zhao, and seemed very unwilling to let it go.
We don’t know what to do, and we can’t sleep all day long.
omnipotent netizens, please give me ideas [Pray]
The above is a story told by a lady in Hanzhong, Shaanxi.
(All pictures in the article are from the Internet, don’t take the seats in the right place.)
