Yang Yuling got married early and took a 4-year-old son at the age of 27. But she is still beautiful and has nothing to do with her children at home. Friends and relatives all envy his husband for being rich, but he is a rich wife at home. However, a year ago, her husband had an affair and soon ended the marriage. A young woman divorced and dragged her 4-year-old son. In this way, Yang Yuling became a leftover woman. What should I do in my future life?
Although she is a victim of this marriage and Yang Yuling is also pitiful, from a secular perspective, this woman has become cheap. When I got married for the second time, I had a small burden, and the blind date was only a divorced middle-aged unmarried old man. After a few blind dates, Yang Yuling said to the people around her: Thank you all for your kindness, don’t worry about my affairs in the future.
Everyone around them was talking about it, saying that this woman was picky and she was already married. In addition, she was carrying a bottle of oil, and she seemed very noble. She saw where to find a suitable one?
But unexpectedly, Yang Yuling remarried a year later. The partner is still a handsome young man who has never been married. He treats her children very well and is better for her.
Yang Yuling’s current husband is Lele’s English teacher, named Li Wei. He is quite handsome, and Lele likes him very much. Once, he said to Yang Yuling: "Mom, Teacher Li Wei is so handsome. Can you marry Teacher Li Wei home?" Li Wei happened to hear it and blushed at that time. Yang Yuling also felt embarrassed and said lightly that she was a divorced single mother. Since then, Li Wei has cared for Lele very much. In addition to attending classes, he also took time to take Lele out to play.
Yang Yuling was moved while dealing with Li Wei, because in the process of treating Lele well, Yang Yuling saw the man's love, patience and responsibility, which were all things that her ex-husband did not have.
So, Yang Yuling expressed her feelings to him, but Li Wei refused. That was of course. Li Wei couldn't accept it for the time being. It took some time. Although he was an kindergarten teacher, he never thought of being a stepfather for a child.
000 years of feudal society has made the Chinese people's thoughts very confined. Even in the civilized society of the 21st century, those thoughts that are not conducive to women still emerge from their bones from time to time. Some people joke that divorced women are overnight meals that cannot be sold, while divorced men are popular with fire.
Yang Yuling was very sad about Li Wei's rejection, but she was not desperate. After all, the fact of divorce and the so-called public opinion bias are in front of you. Instead of complaining about others, it is better to fight for it bravely. Even if I don’t have to love Li Wei, I should still love you again.
Yang Yuling is actually only 28 years old. Many single girls at this age don’t recognize the title of “leftover rice girl”, so youth is still there. Yang Yuling, who had no work experience after graduating from college, could only compete with fresh graduates, , for some front desk and clerk jobs. But lack of work experience does not mean that she has no ability, but she gave him everything for love. Three months later, Yang Yuling was completely adapted to the workplace and started to promote the promotion plan since she was a clerk. But after planning, no matter how busy you are, you have to pick up and drop off Lele in person.
Lele has been learning English in Li Wei's class. When Yang Yuling picked up and dropped off Lele, she treated Li Wei as calmly as a friend. After getting familiar with her, the two of them talked and laughed. After long-term contact, Li Wei's attitude towards Yang Yuling changed, and he took the initiative to ask Yang Yuling to come out for dinner and have fun together. Yang Yuling smiled and said, "You must think about it." I am a divorced young woman with a small burden."
The partner of Yang Yuling's remarriage is undoubtedly Li Wei, but why did Li Wei give up so many young girls and choose Liu Yuzhen, the "leftover girl"?
Li Wei said: After Yang Yuling divorced, she was brave and optimistic, and could find a new focus of life. She was neither humble nor arrogant in her relationship, which made him moved and moved. Most importantly, she educated Lele very well. As a kindergarten teacher, he has seen many children whose parents are divorced and have paranoid personality, but Lele is as happy as his name.
We often think that loving or loving someone does not require a reason. In fact, loving someone certainly requires a reason. However, this reason arises in our subconscious mind that the parties involved do not feel it.