, which is called "make a lot of money in silence". It is to tell us that people who really make a fortune will not talk endlessly, will not advertise themselves everywhere, but will slowly rise up without others knowing, and when others find out, he has become a rich man. Up.
In fact, to make money, you must remain "silent", and you must remain "silent" as a person. Silence is golden. The older a person is, the more he can realize the deep meaning of silence. Silence is not about being speechless, but learning to be quiet. Your temper and personality have changed, and you can survive in the cracks of society. The ups and downs of life are normal things; gain or loss can be dealt with calmly.
People who are really good often "do not speak." Those who don't talk, live more quietly and have more time alone. The heart will also become very strong, as broad as the sea and as stalwart as a mountain.
1. No matter how great the pressure is, carry it by yourself and never complain.
cousin Awei opened a gift shop. In the autumn of last year, when Awei went on a business trip, he found that the price of wild kiwifruit in the field was very high, but the price of wild kiwifruit in our county was very low. He thought this was a good business opportunity. I invested more than 200,000 yuan to buy wild kiwifruit in the countryside, and hired two refrigerated trucks to transport them to Wuhan, Hubei and Hangzhou, Zhejiang. However, the market was unstable and prices fell all the way. Not only did Ah Wei fail to make money, he also lost more than 100,000 yuan.
and gift shops are getting harder and harder, so he transfers the shop, and people don’t know where they are going. His parents called and asked him where he was, and he said, "Don't worry about me, I will go home in two years." From the year before to this year, his parents had no way of knowing what Ah Wei was doing. Just knowing that he is outside and still alive, I feel relieved.
Last month, Ah Wei went home and drove a car worth more than 100,000. The villagers were very envious. It turned out that the money that Awei used to do the kiwifruit business was borrowed from friends, and the interest was high. Awei would not be able to pay it back for a while, and he was afraid of debt collection. He lived in trepidation every day, so he left the county town and took another one. I went to Zhejiang to work.
Awei is a savvy person. After working in the factory for half a year, he started in the waste plastics business. He processed waste plastics into plastic products and sold them, and his profits increased. In more than a year, Awei not only paid off his debts, but also bought a car. In fact, we only saw his success and often ignored the pressure of his career. On the one hand, we must hide from the creditors, on the other hand, we must gather contacts, and at the same time we must raise money to set up factories. Awei lives in a foreign land and can make his career bigger and stronger, and his inner ability to resist pressure is better than ordinary people.
A person who has become a big thing, when facing hardships in life, no matter how much pressure, he will survive, will not let himself collapse, will not complain in front of others, even in front of his parents, will not complain or let family members Worry about yourself.
2. Things in the past are over with a smile, and they are no longer talked about often.
"Nine out of ten unsatisfactory things in life, it is better to laugh." Unsatisfactory things are actually past things, because future things have not happened yet, and no one knows whether they are good or not, and they can't make arbitrary conclusions.
"I don’t think about things in the past anymore" has such a few lyrics: "After the wind and rain, I am more yearning for life, how long the road of life is, and there will be spring after winter..." A truly powerful person, The more experience you have, the more confident you will be in the future. He will never let yourself live in panic because of past experience. He believes that the past is winter, so now he stands at the intersection of winter and spring, and then moves forward. Go, it's a good time in spring.
It is not wrong for a person to remember the past, but always keep the past in mind, and feel that the heavy in the heart is wrong, which will affect one's mood and bring negative emotions. For example, a person has done something sneaky in the past, was caught by others, and was punished. If you remember this thing clearly, you will never be able to raise your head to be a human being, especially when others are pointing behind you, feeling like you are a waste, and you will never recover. If a person loses his marriage, if he is unwilling to face a new life, he will be embarrassed by love, and in the end he will live in a fascinating life.
is a truly powerful person who has achieved "the past will not look back, the future will not be", and say goodbye to the past, and never talk about it again, it is when others talk about it, I also laughed off, it seems that these things have nothing to do with me, and I can do it all. Don't talk about the past, even if you do the present and plan the future, life will go further and further.
3. What others have done has nothing to do with yourself, so no need to say more.
Some people are not good at others, and are very sensitive to everything around them. When others were doing something, he craned his neck to look, his eyes widened, for fear of missing a certain link, for fear of not seeing clearly. Of course, to understand others is not to help others, but to “talk” for yourself. He always speaks eloquently about other people's matters.
Smart people don't talk about other people's affairs, but pay attention to their own affairs wholeheartedly, even if it is about their own rumors, he will turn a deaf ear and ignore them.
As the saying goes: "Three women in one play." But my colleague Mei Hua doesn't like to talk. In addition to discussing work, she usually works by herself. Once, a few women in the office talked about the leader’s housework, and some people looked at Meihua with the corner of their eyes, meaning "she suspects that the leader’s family is not in harmony and will it have something to do with Meihua". There really is no peace. Kindly. But Meihua ignored them.
After a while, the unit personnel changed and Meihua was promoted to deputy manager of the production department. At the same time, the women who liked to make irresponsible remarks in the office were transferred to the warehouse to work as administrators. The reason is that those women who talked about leaders behind their backs were misrepresented and passed on to the leaders' ears, causing trouble.
Really powerful people, do themselves well and never talk about other people's things. When a person always talks about other people's things, he is "spoken" and is easy to be caught "talking", which is not good for oneself.
4. Really powerful people are always "spoofed" and live themselves.
"If the heart doesn't move, what can the wind do?" A person's heart is stronger and more stable. Always look at the world with a quiet state of mind, be able to look down on everything, not arguing with others, and never complaining about difficulties and sad past.
People who are “not speechless” have a quiet heart and always look better than others. Even if they have bitterness in their hearts, they can hold them, and then face life with a smile and think about problems with wisdom. Instead of talking about a bunch of nonsense, it is better to think quietly by yourself.
When you encounter difficulties, you will be alone for a while, think about what you have done wrong and what you have done right. With a clear mind, you will not panic in the pace of life.
Really powerful people, pain but not talking, smiling but not talking, lost but not lost, startled but not confused. People's life is calm and breezy, and the soul is always plain as water, moving forward in silence and erupting in silence.
Author: commoner coarse food.
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