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We are very stubborn, so stubborn that we want to be the dominant part of our destiny, so stubborn that we want anyone and everything to be centered on us, and think about us, we immerse ourselves in it, we think such a life is "very interesting". We never stop and think about "What is the meaning of doing this? "
If we can really live forever, maybe it is meaningful to fight for winning or losing, but the facts are not the case. The facts tell us that no matter how we face and experience it, this life will be completed sooner or later. When we reach the end of our lives and look back on our lives, what do we do?
Maybe there is really a reincarnation! But after reincarnation, the memories of our previous lives will no longer exist.
There are many people who have been confining themselves in a circle all their lives, exuding all kinds of negative energy, blaming others for being bad to themselves, blaming their children for not doing things according to their own ideas and requirements, blaming their relatives and friends for having bad attitudes towards themselves, and even having some complaints and dissatisfaction until the end of their lives. So, what is the meaning of a lifetime like ?
Obviously, such a life has no benefits and meaning except to make us feel frustrated and unhappy inside. This is a life full of negative energy. This is because we always focus our expectations and focus on others. We expect others to be nice to us, but others do not satisfy our expectations, so we are unhappy and so we are dissatisfied.
Yes, In fact, our lives have been surrounded by two major energy, one is negative energy and the other is positive energy. And the events we have described above are life surrounded by negative energy. There is no dispute. negative energy is purely consuming our lives. It keeps our lives covered by darkness. It is so sad without a trace of sunshine.
On the contrary, positive energy is an energy that makes our lives more meaningful. It will make our lives more sunny, positive and optimistic. It will make our lives more open-minded, calm and thorough. So, how should we obtain the positive energy of life?
On the other hand, if you look carefully at the life of negative energy, we will find that "The life of negative energy is all about living for others" or "the life of negative energy is focused on others", and we will speak more clearly. If we always feel depressed because of others' attitudes towards us or what we say to us, then our life will be surrounded by negative energy.
corresponds to, if you want to gain a positive energy life and make our life more meaningful, we have to shift the focus, and we have to shift the focus to ourselves. In other words, if we do not want to be invaded or hurt by some external people, things, and things, then external people, things, and things will not hurt us. If we do not want to receive negative energy, then negative energy will not affect us.
Changyan Changyu:
How does life mean to be meaningful? A life full of positive energy is meaningful. When encountering disputes with others, one should make a move with a bottom line, because no matter how much a person fights, it is not eternal, because no matter whether it is a loss or a win or a win, we will never win fate, because no matter how much we care about others’ views and attitudes towards us in this life, other people’s wealth and happiness have nothing to do with us.
Of course, this is not to let us live selfishly. We can care about what others think of us, but we cannot care too much about what others think of us. We must live for our actions and efforts, and not for other people's mouths.
In short, has a meaningful life that is about receiving and processing all kinds of information we face with ourselves, living for ourselves first, and living for others first, loving ourselves enough, and loving others.
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I am Chang Tan Life, a person from the Family Education Bureau, focusing on family emotions and various aspects of life. Let us use our experience to convey positive energy (new energy is available on time at 7:30 am every day)!
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