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Really good relationship cannot be separated from mutual respect, and the premise of respect is that two people must maintain equality. If one party tries to overtake the other, then the relationship will be already unbalanced.
Based on this, if someone does the following in front of you, it means that he looks down on you from the bottom of his heart and deliberately wants to hurt you.
No matter who it is, there is no need to make a deep relationship with you.
1: Humiliation of you in front of you, it can be seen that you are not kind to you
Any truly healthy and benign relationship must make people feel comfortable, and those deformed relationships will only consume you continuously, make you feel very tired, and want to escape at all times.
Because the other party is not kind to you, he will not like you when you live well, but he will be very proud of you when you live poorly.
People like you have always only false feelings and staying away in time is the best way.
In the TV series " Only 30 ", the luxury cabinet sister Wang Manni was targeted by a colleague who humiliated her in public more than once, saying that her performance was so good, and she relied on pleasing men. This personality insult like
caused great harm to Wang Manni, but she was not a soft persimmon that could be controlled by others, but proved herself in time and fought back against her colleagues.
She knew in her heart that there was no need to get entangled with such a person. From the moment she humiliated herself in public, it had already explained her character.
2: Mocking you in front of you, embarrassing you, but saying that you are not verbal
Some people claim to be careless, not care about the details, or speak unintentionally, and laugh at others unscrupulously. Afterwards, they will say:
"Don't mind, I am just kidding."
If you are really angry about it, he will say that you are petty, spread your rumors everywhere, and slander your reputation. This kind of person is very scheming, and it is not an exaggeration to say that it is vicious.
saw a news online that a slightly fat bride was ridiculed without limit on her wedding day. One of the men said that according to local customs, the bride should sit on her father-in-law's lap for dinner.
and another person said, be careful that the leg was crushed.
Then everyone burst into laughter. This vulgar joke makes people unbearable, so the bride resolutely fights back: "When your wife married you, did you sit on your dad's thigh?"
He was stunned and said after a long time, "It's all the same."
The bride said again: "Since it's all the same, then you don't have to worry. It's not too late to sit on his father-in-law's thigh when his daughter gets married in the future. You can see enough at that time."
Everyone obviously didn't expect that the bride was so difficult to mess with, so they could only shut up embarrassedly.
Remember, if you can't play with your wife or daughter for a joke, then you can't play with other women either. Anyone who laughs at others in the name of joking is a villain and there is no other possibility.
3: For the purpose of watching you jokes, exposing your scars or your weaknesses in public, so that you can't get out of the stage
The evil of human nature is sometimes beyond imagination.
If a person holds your handle and knows your shortcomings or past scars, it will be easy for him to hurt you. The most common one is that he will make you unable to get out of the market in public, which will make you extremely embarrassed.
He will uncover your scars and leave you nowhere to hide. The more painful you are, the more he feels happy. Such people only have evil and bad in their bones, and no longer have the bottom line of being a human being.
For example, knowing that your original family is not good, deliberately making sense of your unfortunate growth experience; for example, knowing that you have been hurt in your relationship, deliberately revealing the specific details;
For example, knowing that your body has defects or hidden diseases, deliberately exposing them in public...
The purpose of his doing this is very simple, just to prevent you from getting out of the market, because he has bad intentions towards you and is hurting you in a targeted and purposeful manner.
When facing such people, you don’t need to be merciful and fight back appropriately and then stay away to make your world purified.
It is difficult to draw bones when drawing a tiger, but it is hard to draw bones when knowing people, but not your heart.
You never know how many faces a person has and how many kinds of masks he wears. Until one day, he reveals his true face in front of you, and then you will suddenly wake up. It turns out that you have been deceived for so long.
But no matter what, you will grow up after you have experience. I hope that after seeing it clearly, we will break off diplomatic relations with some people in time to avoid greater harm and influence.
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