Hello, I am 67, a post-90s born in the 1990s who love tossing and having a second child, it is very comfortable to lie flat, but I prefer a hot life. Hello everyone~ Click to follow before reading!
Women love beauty and are afraid of old age.
0 is like a watershed, as if one side is a symbol of youth and the other side is a symbol of aging. In fact, it is not. There is a saying: A good-looking skin is the same, but an interesting soul is the same.
Since people are born, they are slowly getting older, no one can change it.
Then improve your inner self, calm down and live away from the hustle and bustle. The infancy period has passed, the childhood period has passed, and the teenage rebellious period has passed, and now it is the best.
May we fade away our youthful recklessness, remove the rough and extract the essence, and leave our wise heads.
a few days ago because I voted for a topic to collect manuscripts. In addition to the basic manuscript fee, if you want to get a higher manuscript fee, you need to canvass yourself at the end of the article. The top three manuscript fees will be more.
Seeing that there were too many votes in the first and second place, I settled for the second place and tried to keep the third place, and widened the gap in the number of votes with the participants behind.
So I found family and friends who usually play well to help vote.
Haha, I started chatting with a sister because of this.
Before, she left the workplace because she took care of her children full-time, and she has been working hard in the workplace.
also chatted at the beginning, and at the beginning of each chat she would ask me if I had come out to work.
told me not to stay at home for a long time and be out of touch with society, and it would be difficult to go back.
I know she is for my goodness, and only those who are sincere for me will tell the truth.
The good medicine is good for the disease, and the honest advice is good for the action. I understand this principle.
However, due to the limitations of the actual situation, the road to returning to the workplace is always far away.
Ask too much, I feel guilty and feel that it’s so heartbreaking to take care of my children every day and not going to work.
Until I started to find things for myself, including doing micro-business before and writing now, I gradually regained my confidence.
Confidence and confidence come from the inner abundance and the growing self.
So I mustered up the courage to talk to her on my own initiative, and now we can speak freely again.
Whether it is husband and wife or friends, the best relationship is that you are good and I am not bad either.
Don't be left far, otherwise you may not even be able to catch up with the shadow.
I remembered a sister who was a few years older than me because she had two sisters in her family.
She is the second child in the family. When her sister gets married, her parents hope she can find a son-in-law.
watches her very tightly and keeps her in love.
Later, I couldn't resist my parents. After listening to their parents' words, I married an older man.
But they can't go together, there is no common topic, she talks about modern Internet things, and he tells the story of herding cattle when she was a child.
is not bad for men, but the inappropriate two people.
Later, when I had a child, I went my separate ways.
and her sisters also talked about their dreams. She said that I should work hard, hoping to realize her dream of living a retirement life at the age of 30.
I asked her to give her a 30-word speech, and she really said it.
She said: "It's very sad. I'm old when I don't feel it well. Yes, I cried. I was 30 years old. I don't know why I was very sad that day, and I can't say it. Thinking about Dilraba is 30, so I figured it out. After all, the goddess is the same age as me."
I know that the retirement she mentioned is about 30 years old and has money and leisure, and is running a career I love, traveling anytime, anywhere, etc.
If she is really financially free, she may be really tired and chooses to lie down and go to retire.
But she is currently in the stage of wanting to change the industry and wanting to transfer from operations to other things, so she keeps working hard.
Recently, she signed up for a paid course and was working hard to learn dubbing. She thought that she could learn to open a column when she was ready.
also joked that we will cooperate at that time and I will write an article and she will read it.
I asked her to practice her internal skills soon and strive to retire at the age of 40.
Of course, I also need to practice internal skills, so as to strive to not regret or cry when I am 30 years old.
In fact, we all know that if we can’t achieve our goals at the age of 40, we may still cry.
days will continue, and then smile and say, working harder, strive to retire at the age of 50, and so on.
I hope we have been working hard and one day realize our dreams, big or small.
She is now in Hangzhou, the city we all like. I am in Changzhou , which is only more than three hours' drive. Because of the epidemic, we restrained the afternoon tea we made at any time.
After the epidemic, we will make an appointment to see the beautiful scenery of Yunnan that we have longed for for a long time, and toast our youth that we have passed away together with a cup of milk tea, and to our future.
Don't ask why you use milk tea instead of romantic red wine, because she is allergic to wine. Yes, we have known each other for many years and know many little secrets about each other.
I wish you to have pure friendship and dreams to pursue.
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