Ruohua is an older single woman. My friend introduced a boy who was a teacher. The two chatted online and felt good. The boy made an appointment to meet, and Ruohua happily agreed.
date is in the street park. The two of them walked and chatted. When they were tired, they sat down and rested. It was almost time for dinner. The boy said he would treat him to a meal, but he went to a roadside noodle restaurant. Seeing that the store was not in good condition, Ruohua said that she would treat her to Western food. Although she felt uncomfortable, she paid the bill after saying that she would treat her. However, the boy later said that she was on the way and asked her to drive him. He remembered that he had a car, but he didn't drive when he met. Because the parking fee in the community was expensive, he parked the door in his parents' yard.
The first time I met and had a meal, I looked for such a casual place, but I didn’t take the initiative to pay for it after changing the place, and even asked myself to send him back. Ruohua felt unrespected and felt wronged and hesitated whether to continue meeting. She was confused and a little anxious.
Online chat cannot understand a person’s real situation. Only when I meet this time, I can indeed reflect a lot of information. The place to date and the place to eat all show a person's interest and style of behavior in the other person.
The income of teachers can generally reach the upper and middle level in the local area. The expensive parking fee in the community indirectly shows the community price. He took the initiative to propose a date, and did not plan well in advance, and took the attitude of making a decision after meeting.
There are four possible reasons for choosing a noodle restaurant to eat. First, I have average favorability for girls and don’t want to please them and pay too much. The second is to look at girls’ consumption habits, which can be said to be a test to evaluate whether you can afford it. Third, you are accustomed to being frugal, and there may be economic pressure at present.
The first time I had a bad impression, it would indeed greatly reduce the relationship. But both of them actually still have the idea of continuing to date. Ruohua changed places to eat, left without turning around, and even felt wronged and sent him back, which means she wanted to continue, but her inner discomfort caused uncertainty.
If a boy is not satisfied, he will not ask Ruohua to send him back. Later, the invitation to meet again also showed that he had the intention to continue dating. Give yourself and the other party at least three opportunities to understand the actual situation.
You can check your consumption habits based on the frequency of the boy's daily gathering place with friends. Whether the current house and car have loans or the family has debts. From the perspective of boys, older girls may be a flaw. Interests and hobbies, plans for the past one or two years need to be understood in depth.
Older singleness, let me hear what he says about the reasons behind it. If you can communicate effectively and speak frankly, it will be more conducive to making up your mind to communicate or not.
Because of beautiful imagination, looking for the ideal person or inferiority caused by family conditions, I slowly missed the destiny. The older you are, the less you want to settle down, but you can’t keep yourself closed and just stop trying, it’s a waste of time. Only by truly understanding the other person and indirectly understanding yourself, you can still find a suitable lover.
No one likes loneliness, but if you find someone you don’t like, it even brings dangers and safety risks, it is better to be a high-quality single. Find a lover. Character is the most important thing. Understand character and see how he treats you and how he treats people. Some people know how to act, and some people can’t get lost in their own plot.
Nowadays, many people may be different from each other, which is really a common thing. Not only do you have to listen to someone, but you also have to see how he does it. There are many short checks to be issued, and whether small promises are fulfilled can actually reflect the character indirectly.
What kind of people will meet? It is not only fate, but also the inner attraction between each other. It is not easy to know people with a wise eye. You can only use more attention and don’t be too moved. Time is here, and the right person will definitely come.
Don’t invest in a relationship too quickly, and don’t reject possible fate too anxiously. On the road to seek love, be more patient and more attentive. On the road to losing love, you will have less regret and less pain.
