After getting married, there will be the opposite sex to flirt with you. Don’t think you have any charm. It’s just a few things on you.
It is not because you know that you have a family, but you still can't help but get close to you. It's not because you are so outstanding, but because you have what he needs.
After a certain age, you will gradually understand. It is impossible for adults to have any feelings, it is nothing more than a need. You look at his sweet words, and he looks at your tenderness and beauty. You look at the material halo on him, and he looks at you with youth and vitality.
First: Provide you with emotional value, just to make you give your body
Sweet words are like poisons that can make you happy, but in the end it will hurt you to the point of being completely damaged.
found the feeling of attachment in a person, and slowly built mirage in his heart. I thought it was a beautiful castle, but when I woke up, I realized that it was just a bubble.
When the live broadcast of the tweet was broadcast, a female fan came up. She is married and has two adorable children. The unit of work is also relatively stable.
My husband runs his own business and his income is also considerable. This year, she consumed herself in an extramarital relationship.
This person is her colleague. At first, the two of them only talked about work in private messages, slowly talking about their children, family, and their marriage life.
Chat topics are getting deeper and deeper, and the content scale of chat is getting bigger and bigger. My husband's sleep quality is not good, and they have been dividing the room for many years.
As the two of them became more and more emotionally dependent on him, she felt very disappointed if she didn't say a few words one day. Sometimes, I even chat with him until very late.
talked in depth for several months, and naturally established a relationship. With this relationship, her attachment to him became deeper.
Unexpectedly, a few months later, she accidentally discovered the ambiguous relationship between this man and another female colleague. At this time, she suddenly realized.
But it took several months to exhaust myself physically and mentally.
Sometimes, women are stupid and think that they meet true love, but they are just deliberately approaching you under the banner of love. You are still immersed in the car's vows, but in the end it's just a matter of sleeping.
Second: Deliberately flirt with you, just want to enjoy your mouth
In addition to the man who wants to sleep with you, it is also like to enjoy your mouth . Such men often have a thief heart but no courage. I only dare to be ambiguous in words, and I dare not step through the thunder pool.
There is a reader who left me a message in the article.
When she was playing games online, she met a man. After the two of them added private messages to each other, they had been interacting frequently.
A few days later, the name became intimate. The man promised to wait until Valentine's Day and send her a red envelope.
She was filled with joy. Unexpectedly, on Valentine's Day, the man did not chat with her, and did not even have basic greetings. After disappearing for a few days, I suddenly chatted with her again.
She didn't know what this man was thinking.
In fact, this kind of man is just trying to get his mouth. It is harder than climbing to the sky, and it is basically impossible. It sounds nice to say, but it won't take any practical actions.
Of course, it is always unrealistic to have expectations and desires for men at a certain age. There is no pie that falls for no reason in the sky. If it consumes the other party, it always needs to be returned in different ways.
Third: interact with you, want to seize resources and benefits from you,
In addition to men flirting with women, there are many women flirting with men.
In the workplace, there is a type of women who are the most cruel, deliberately creating ambiguous relationships with you and asking you to help her invest. There is such a message under the video
.
The man follows his parents and runs his own business. He falls in love with a married woman who has two children.When a woman interacts with him, she often complains about her husband and complains in front of him.
He gradually developed a good impression of women and had deep sympathy. She would give her some gifts from time to time, and the two would occasionally have physical ambiguous relationships.
Not long after, she said she wanted to open a small company, but she still lacked some of the funds. Without saying a word, he invested 200,000. He has been interacting with her for half a year after
. After the project started, she slowly alienated her relationship with him, which hurt him very much.
, facing what you like, was stupid and devoted, but found that he was just a pawn and he was inevitably angry.
In fact, after being married, most of you will not be kind to the opposite sex when you are flirting with. A momentary obsession and passion make you fall in love, but in the end you find both physically and mentally exhausted.
The active and passive are the same. Because you move, the other party has a chance.
Regardless of men and women, at any time, you can improve your inner self and keep a deliberate distance from the opposite sex to stay away from emotional consumption.
