Love requires two people to protect it together.
After we start a relationship, we should keep a certain distance from other people of the opposite sex.
You must have a sense of boundaries in your heart and know what you can do and what you must never do.
When interacting with the opposite sex, there are three things you need to be particularly vigilant about. Because many of the cross-border relationships between men and women start from doing these three things.
01
Over-involvement in each other’s lives
Men and women who are not in love should not be over-involved in each other’s lives.
Even if you are good friends with him, you still need to know when enough is enough.
Many friendships between men and women "deteriorate" because they interact closely with each other and their lives are too intertwined.
were always together, and ordinary friends developed into boyfriend and girlfriend.
If you and he have their own romantic relationships, you must grasp the boundaries when you are in a relationship.
can chat, but please don’t contact every day;
can treat occasionally, but don’t meet every day;
can say hello if something happens, but please don’t take it too seriously.
After all, you and he have their own lives. If you blend in too much, it will be a disaster for both parties.
Just because we are friends, we should cherish this friendship and never do anything that easily crosses the line.
02
There is no sense of propriety when chatting
Language will convey a lot of signals, so when interacting with the opposite sex, you should also pay special attention to the rhythm of speaking.
Some words may not seem like much to you, but the person who said them did not mean it, and the person who listened meant it. It is difficult to ensure that the other party will not misunderstand.
In order to prevent heterosexual relationships from crossing the line, the simplest way is to try not to say inappropriate words when two people are chatting.
For example, ambiguous title. Even if you have a good relationship, never bark.
In addition, explicit jokes should never be told to friends of the opposite sex.
There are also many things about privacy, which should be discussed as little as possible between the two people.
Verbal transgression is likely to disturb a person's heart and make people have other ideas.
If this continues, the result will be beyond imagination.
are just friends. We should abide by the duties of a good friend and be careful when speaking.
03
Behavior is too intimate
When interacting with the opposite sex, if it is not a couple relationship, it cannot be too intimate.
Especially if each other has their own love affair, then you should grasp the scale carefully and don't let your significant other misunderstand.
In life, many people don’t care much about intimate contact between opposite sexes.
Even if they are not lovers, it is not surprising to eat the same thing together and occasionally hold hands or hug.
But in fact, in the eyes of outsiders, this behavior has crossed the line.
If you are single, others will not say anything, but if you are in a relationship, it is difficult not to be suspicious of such behavior.
As the saying goes, men and women are different.
Interactions between opposite sexes should still comply with certain etiquette. It is best not to behave too intimately.
Because excessive intimacy is often the beginning of a relationship between a man and a woman that crosses the line.
However, when participating in the other person's life and speaking, you must have a sense of propriety and not be too intimate.
If these three points can be achieved, it will be difficult for the relationship between men and women to cross the line.
