It is understood that extramarital affairs: In order to stay together openly, please divorce before cheating. Netizen
shared that a very close friend of hers fell in love with her current husband at first sight, but at that time they were already married and had children. In order to be together openly, everyone quickly divorced their ex. They have been together for more than ten years now. They have given birth to a son together and live happily. And the most rare thing is that they are now friends with their exes, so there are no absolutes in the world. It is true, but the four of them are relatively good people, with good jobs and stable incomes, so economic conditions are also a prerequisite for family harmony. I also think that many people don't have such courage. Although it is not glorious, the ending is still happy. Is this showing off? I just use the actual situation to tell bloggers that there are no absolutes in the world. And how do you know that if the children of both parties are harmed, they will live an unhappy life? Just with your own knowledge and mind?
Is this showing off? I am just using examples to tell bloggers that there are no absolutes in the world. And how do you know that other people's children are hurt and unhappy? Just based on your understanding of the world? Even their exes have put down their hostility and got along well with them, which proves that their daily way of dealing with people is also recognized by everyone. After what you said, I found that my cognition is indeed not good, my vision is not broad, my tolerance is too small, and I look down on people who destroy other people's marriages. Well, I will reflect on it. Marriage without love is immoral, and destroying other people's marriages is equally immoral. But in fact, many first-marriage couples nowadays are not really in love, and many people are forced into various pressures to enter seemingly well-matched marriages. No matter what, it is immoral, it depends on what bottom line you want to stick to.
Some people will stick to their bottom line no matter whether they are happy or not. Some people have mental mysophobia. If they don't love, they don't love anymore, and they can no longer share the same bed with others and perform the rituals of husband and wife. Of course, I'm not praising their love, I just feel that people always have to take responsibility for themselves, whether it's love, family, career, etc... What I admire is their decisiveness and lack of procrastination. I can only say that in today’s society, there is not much true love inside or outside of marriage. Loving yourself well is the most important thing! Men are creatures like this. Use them when you want to use them. If you don’t want to use them, don’t bother me.
There is no true love inside or outside marriage. There is only who is more valuable, and whoever is valuable will love him more. This is the truth. I don’t want it inside or outside marriage. I just want to be myself. right! You are absolutely right. My ex-husband was the same way. He found a man who had better financial ability than me and had an illegitimate child with a woman outside. Then he abandoned his wife and daughter and ignored me and my daughter for nearly 20 years. I really think about it when I think about it. Not interesting. The point is not about marriage or extramarital affairs. It is not about whether you love or not. The most important thing is the cost-effectiveness. This is reality, so love yourself. Only you can love yourself. It doesn’t matter whether he likes it or not, everyone just takes what he needs. Everything is not owned by me, but everything is used by me. Man, you are a scumbag, I am even more scumbag than you [laughing R].
Only those who have experienced self-awakening can manage their marriage better! Because you are outside marriage! If a man is sober and rational outside of marriage, it is because you are outside of marriage and he knows that what he needs is a family!
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