Text丨Love in the West Chamber
Time is not long, I hope you will meet in my words and it will not be too late!
Deep love is loud, but unfeeling is silent.
Love is passionate and clear. When a woman is in a state of deep love, she must be passionate and brave, with a gentle and watery side, and an angry and sad look.
Even if it is wishful thinking, even if it is a secret love, as long as you truly love someone, there will be a voice.
A word of care, an expression of admiration, an act of sadness... these are all expressions of liking and loving someone.
The love of the parents' generation is like this. They don't mention "I love you" at all, and they even live in noisy situations, but love is everywhere.
My father often complained about his mother's nagging and unreasonable troubles. But when the nagging or unreasonable troubles disappeared and everything became peaceful, my father became lonely.
The reason is that in those days of fireworks, he was loved passionately.
In real life, there are always some men who think that their partner's quarrels or temper tantrums are too "unfeeling".
For example, after making the other person angry and sad, if you coax the other person a little bit, you hope that the other person will immediately smile, otherwise he will be "difficult", "unfeeling" and "unreasonable".
As everyone knows, if a woman is still willing to have these disputes with you or get angry with you, it is because she still loves you and is willing to give you another chance.
Of course, there are some men who understand this truth, but they will still challenge each other's bottom line and hurt each other again and again.
Therefore, Ximei wants to remind men not to look at women in a self-righteous way. You know, a woman's true "unfeeling" is actually silent.
She has no feelings about what you do
If a woman is truly heartless, then she will have no feelings about what you do. At this time, you and her are worse than strangers.
You have to understand that only when you love someone can you have him or her in your heart, and therefore you will care about all his actions or words.
After all, she hopes to get proof that you love her.
Therefore, when she no longer cares, it means that she no longer loves you at all, and what you do cannot cause any harm to her.
Whether it is your indifferent treatment or your proactive attentiveness, she will always look calm.
You will find that even if you ignore her and deal with her, she will no longer argue with you and ask you to give her a reason like before.
And even if you suddenly treat her very well, she will not fall into gentleness again. All in all, your happiness, anger, sorrow and joy are no longer related to her.
Don’t bother me anymore, stay away from your life
“Don’t bother each other, keep each other well” is the voice of any woman who is disappointed in her relationship and no longer cares about it.
When a woman is really heartless, she will eagerly want to stay away from your life and have nothing to do with you anymore. She has no interest in your life, and she doesn't want you to participate in her life.
No matter how well you are doing, she will no longer care. At the same time, even if her life is unsatisfactory, she will not ask you for help or complain.
Ximei has seen many truly heartless women. They did not cry like men thought, or fight to the death with men.
They were all very calm. That kind of calmness seemed like they had already made plans to go away to a foreign country, and a high wall had been erected in their hearts.
Yes, that’s what women are like. She will rely on you when she wants to. Once she has accumulated enough disappointment, she will naturally not speak again.
Quietly transform and become yourself
A woman's true ruthlessness is actually silent, and quiet transformation is one of the manifestations.
A woman can put down what she wants to do, such as her career, because she loves you, and devote herself wholeheartedly to her family and life.
However, a woman can also wake up and start to be herself because she no longer loves. After all, when her focus is no longer on you, she will naturally focus on herself.
For example, she will start to focus on her work, and working overtime will gradually become a normal thing.
For example, she will expand her own circle, meet new friends, learn new things, and cultivate and develop new interests and hobbies.
At this time, she won't care what you think of her. Even if you think she's just messing around and devaluing her interests and hobbies as worthless, she won't respond.
"If you say one more word to someone you don't love, you are asking for trouble." This is what a reader said to me. Yes, if I don’t love it anymore, why do I need understanding, attention, support and approval?
When you are no longer in love, living a good life may be the best choice for a woman.
What is written at the back:
When a woman is so silent to you, you should understand that she is completely disappointed. This is her true "unfeeling" performance. Li Bei in the
TV series " Love Centimeter " and Zhang Zhizhi in the TV series " Dear Myself " are two typical differences.
Li Bei's husband Guan Zhenlei is a typical naughty elder and sister. Li Bei chose to divorce him after many attempts to persuade her to no avail. However, she was not really "unfeeling", she just hoped that he could sincerely change his mind.
After the divorce, she still chose to give birth to their child, and after Guan Zhenlei corrected himself, she also forgave him.
But Zhang Zhizhi was really disappointed. She was completely "unfeeling". When she found out that her husband Liu Yang had cheated on her, she would be playful and noisy at first, but later she became extremely calm.
She began to focus on her career and no longer took Liu Yang seriously. Even if Liu Yang later wanted to remarry, she turned a blind eye.
It can be seen that when a woman is truly disappointed and no longer loves that man, she will be truly "unfeeling".
Therefore, whether it is a woman's "duplicity" or her gentle care, you should learn to accept, tolerate and cherish it.
You have to understand that if a woman really doesn't love you anymore, she must be silent.
However, a woman can also wake up and start to be herself because she no longer loves. After all, when her focus is no longer on you, she will naturally focus on herself.
For example, she will start to focus on her work, and working overtime will gradually become a normal thing.
For example, she will expand her own circle, meet new friends, learn new things, and cultivate and develop new interests and hobbies.
At this time, she won't care what you think of her. Even if you think she's just messing around and devaluing her interests and hobbies as worthless, she won't respond.
"If you say one more word to someone you don't love, you are asking for trouble." This is what a reader said to me. Yes, if I don’t love it anymore, why do I need understanding, attention, support and approval?
When you are no longer in love, living a good life may be the best choice for a woman.
What is written at the back:
When a woman is so silent to you, you should understand that she is completely disappointed. This is her true "unfeeling" performance. Li Bei in the
TV series " Love Centimeter " and Zhang Zhizhi in the TV series " Dear Myself " are two typical differences.
Li Bei's husband Guan Zhenlei is a typical naughty elder and sister. Li Bei chose to divorce him after many attempts to persuade her to no avail. However, she was not really "unfeeling", she just hoped that he could sincerely change his mind.
After the divorce, she still chose to give birth to their child, and after Guan Zhenlei corrected himself, she also forgave him.
But Zhang Zhizhi was really disappointed. She was completely "unfeeling". When she found out that her husband Liu Yang had cheated on her, she would be playful and noisy at first, but later she became extremely calm.
She began to focus on her career and no longer took Liu Yang seriously. Even if Liu Yang later wanted to remarry, she turned a blind eye.
It can be seen that when a woman is truly disappointed and no longer loves that man, she will be truly "unfeeling".
Therefore, whether it is a woman's "duplicity" or her gentle care, you should learn to accept, tolerate and cherish it.
You have to understand that if a woman really doesn't love you anymore, she must be silent.
