I often think that divorced people are unfortunate and miserable, but there are also people who choose to divorce for the sake of happiness...
If you feel that marriage is a disaster, who will compromise and suffer in marriage, just like a bird? You put it in a cage, and the reason why it is still alive is that it wants to return to the blue sky one day.
There are also people who don’t take marriage seriously at all. Marriage is a spur-of-the-moment emotion, and divorce is only a matter of thought.
Some people choose to divorce, which is a difficult decision.
Some people choose divorce out of helplessness.
For some people, choosing divorce is easier than choosing what to eat today.
Qian Zhongshu said that marriage is like a besieged city. People in the city want to get out, and people outside the city want to come in.
But how many times can a person get married in a lifetime?
How many times can a person dare to get divorced in his lifetime?
Marriage is not easy...
There is a big difference between people who have been married and people who have never been married.
People who are not married are still very "young" in mentality. At least "I" am still a "free person". Even if some people are in their thirties or forties, they are anxious to get married, but you can feel it. The innocence of being a “free man.”
One year, a few buddies were having dinner together, and a single man got drunk and said - I really envy you, you have children! As soon as he finished speaking, several married men looked at each other, as if they had a feeling of "being connected by the same fate."
There are two types of people who are not married, one is extremely eager to get married, and the other is not thinking about getting married yet.
There is only one kind of person who has ever been married - thinking about divorce.
Despite the longings and quarrels, most people still dare not leave, and some people have thought about divorce but do not want to get divorced .
Even married people will see through the essence of marriage sooner or later, but marriage is the most important part of life for everyone.
However, there are still some people who are divorced...
People who have been divorced look "different"!
I have a sister who got divorced a few years ago and has not "come out" in these years. Before the divorce, she was young and beautiful, with a smile on her face. You could always see her posting on WeChat Moments, "showing off" her happy little days.
But she changed after the divorce. She felt much "older". She had gray hair before she was even forty years old. She looked depressed all day long and never saw her post on WeChat Moments again.
Some people say, isn’t it just a matter of getting a divorce?
A divorce is a huge blow to a person.
There is another lady who married a man from a wealthy family. I remember in the first few years of marriage, every time I saw her, I could see her proud look. Who wouldn’t be happy when marrying a rich man?
But then she fell in love with She was abandoned by another lover. After the divorce, she couldn't accept the reality. From a beautiful and elegant woman, she turned into a crazy woman...
After a divorce, some people don't care at all - how could they not care, just It can be said that they are optimistic enough.
Some people get divorced and never find themselves again for the rest of their lives.
Some people say that divorce mostly hurts women, while men are not hurt at all when divorced.
In fact, it is the same for men and women. After divorce, life changes too much.
In the movie " The Pursuit of Happiness ", because the male protagonist was so poor, his lover chose to leave him. Before leaving, his lover said, I'm sorry, I don't want to live like this anymore! Who doesn't desire happiness? Is it right to pursue happiness?
The male protagonist is extremely reluctant to leave, but there is nothing he can do about it. His lover is gone, and he is extremely sad...
Some people will turn grief into strength, while others will sink in grief.
Being divorced once is like being cut with a wound that will never heal.
For a divorced person, you will find that his eyes have changed and become so melancholy. Please forgive him for becoming very silent, because there are some stories that he does not want to tell anymore.
British writer Russell said that divorce is the safety valve of marriage.
What is the safety valve after divorce...
Those who have never been divorced may not understand - in the days before the divorce, I always felt that I had been abandoned by the world. There was only one person missing in the room, but I felt like the whole world was missing. I felt lonely even when I was eating, walking, working, or traveling. After the divorce, I realized how incompetent I was. It turns out that there are so many things that require the presence of a lover.
But after a few years, I finally became an independent soul. I cooked alone, drank alone, and lived a life of "two people" alone. I got used to it.
I really admire a person who can fall in love with someone else right after a divorce.
Da S and Wang Xiaofei got married soon after their divorce. Such a woman is "free and easy" enough. Perhaps, she doesn't want a divorce, so she should change her ideal life.
One day brings a hundred days of kindness to a husband and wife. A husband and wife must have loved each other. Some people who are not sad at all after divorce may be that they love life more.
I once heard a friend say that the reason why I don’t get married is because I don’t want to get divorced. I witnessed with my own eyes that after my parents got divorced, I never wanted to get married in this life!
Yes, there is no harm without "buying and selling".
But once you fall in love, can you really not get married?
American writer Mencken said that marriage can be compared to a cage. The birds outside the cage desperately want to get in, and the birds inside the cage desperately want to get out.
Only after struggling a lot in marriage can you understand people's hearts.
People who have been divorced feel like they have been through hell, but they still have to smile in life. It seems that nothing has happened, but his eyes have betrayed him, and his silence has expressed his feelings about marriage. The reason why he is more focused on life may be just because he has loved but also hated...
