In this life, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people can bring us happiness, and some people can only bring us pain.
When I was young, it was easy to misunderstand people, mistaking hypocrisy for sincerity, and mistaking self-love for love, so I became humble in a relationship, but no matter how humble I was, I couldn't get the desired result, and it would only make me miserable. I am becoming more and more miserable, making my feelings more and more cheap.
In fact, the moment the damage is caused, we should wake up and stop deceiving ourselves.
After struggling in time for half his life, he has reached middle age. He has witnessed too many joys and sorrows, and has experienced too many hardships in the world. When it comes to love, he is no longer the blind pursuit of love that he once was.
But there are always times when the emptiness and loneliness of the years come, and you are hot-headed and easy to be impulsive. You are blinded by the happiness of those who join hands for a lifetime, and you easily believe in a sweet promise.
Women are particularly obvious at this point.
Maybe I am envious of other people's happiness, maybe I want a stable life, so I lose myself in the man's long-term sweet words, fall into his trap under his promise, and in the end, I am deceived and hurt.
When a woman reaches middle age, she thinks that her years of experience will make her invulnerable and keep her calm and composed attitude.
But women have overlooked one thing. Middle-aged men are also experienced people. Even if they did not understand women when they were young, after more experience, it becomes easier and easier to grasp women's thoughts.
Even in middle age, how a relationship develops still depends on the outcome of the competition between men and women.
As for women, after middle age, they would rather be single than find these three types of men to accompany them.
01: Idle men
Some men are idle. They have nothing serious to do all day long. If they really want to find something to do, it is most likely just eating, drinking, whoring, gambling, but some middle-aged women will fall into such men. in the trap.
If an idle man like this takes the initiative to approach a woman, he will definitely say a lot of sweet words and be considerate and warm to the woman. Apart from the fact that he does not have a serious job, there is almost nothing wrong with him.
They can capture the characteristics of middle-aged women who are long-term emptiness and loneliness, and are obedient and considerate to women, allowing women to make up for the long-term emptiness and loneliness, and making women begin to long for the days when they are accompanied by others.
After falling into the trap woven by men, women will beautify everything about men, and even think that it is okay for men to idle around. Anyway, they can support a family.
When a woman has this idea, the future results are already obvious.
That man who idles around all day has no ability and no worries. He takes the initiative to approach women just for the sake of her property, so that she can support him.
At the beginning, he laid a trap full of flowers for the woman. When the woman falls into it, her true colors will be revealed.
So, after middle age, women would rather be single than find such an idle man.
02: A man who is prone to irritability
No matter how much two people love each other, they will always have quarrels and conflicts when they are together. In that case, the best way to deal with it is to talk less and wait until they are both calm enough. Bring things to the table and talk them out.
After reaching middle age, the experience in the first half of life can make people understand this to some extent.
If a woman wants to find someone to accompany her, she must avoid such pitfalls and stay away from men who are prone to bad temper. A man like
may be sincere to you, but you have to understand that in a long-term quarrel, you will gradually be disappointed, gradually become discouraged, and finally decide to leave.
Everyone has his own temper, which is understandable. However, after a person reaches middle age, his temper is still easy to change, irritable and irritable. This can be seen to some extent. This man is easy to be self-centered, so, When faced with things that don't make him happy, his emotions tend to get out of control.
If you live with this kind of man, you will easily suffer all kinds of torture. By then, the rest of your life will be ruined.
So, after middle age, women would rather be single than find such a man who is easily irritable.
03: The third party in a family man
relationship is destined to be reviled by others. This has nothing to do with age, the times, or any reason. People who take the initiative to interfere in other people's feelings have moral and character problems. .
And that person who knows that he has a family, but still frequently gets close to you and gets closer to you, obviously has dirty thoughts. Even if such a person has given you a promise of eachother, he will also give it to another person in the future. A woman takes the same vow.
Because he does not want to divorce his wife, he is just looking for the excitement of extramarital affairs, and you just happen to become his "prey".
He always only cares about his own interests, especially when the relationship between you is discovered, he can be cruel and unfeeling, regardless of the friendship between you.
When a woman reaches middle age, don’t try to pin your good life on a married man. Instead of believing in that kind of man’s sweet words, it’s better to work hard yourself. At least your efforts will not abandon you at a critical moment.
When facing a married man, especially a married man with evil intentions, you must know how to keep your distance and don't give yourself a chance to be tempted.
For the rest of my life, find a man who can make you feel comfortable to live with me. Maybe we don’t love each other enough, but knowing each other for the rest of our lives has already outweighed that love.
I am Aya, a writer of heart-warming emotions. How lucky I am to meet you in this life! Please give us a follow and let’s learn together!
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