Some time ago, according to figures from the National Bureau of Statistics , our country’s birth rate reached a new low. Although many policies have been promulgated at the national level to stimulate childbirth, they still have not achieved good results. Many people of marriageable age even regard being single as a fashion. Of course we acknowledge that people are now under increasing pressure.
Getting married is actually a watershed in life. After all, after getting married, a person’s pressure may increase exponentially, and the ratio of men to women in China is now slightly imbalanced . The large-scale population flow in cities and rural areas has also been caused by many reasons. It has solved the social problem that it is difficult for young men to get married, but it does not mean that all those who are unwilling to get married cannot get married due to objective reasons. However, subjective reasons do not want to get married, but they account for an increasing proportion of .
This is a true story. The current living situation of an old man living alone in Zhoukou, Henan.. This old man has never married and had children in his life, and now his daily life is to sit on the bench at the door and bask in the sun. Young people will not communicate with him, and the old people of the same age each have their own family relationships. Le, maybe his childhood playmate has passed away long ago, or maybe the old man has become withdrawn after many years of unmarried life.
No matter what the reason is, the current situation is that he is always like this, alone, , just like what the song says: sleep alone, eat alone, get sick alone, take care of yourself, lonely and sad, look With the new houses gradually being built around it, the old man's dilapidated brick house also seemed so out of place. In fact, the reproduction of our human beings first comes from instinct, and secondly it is also to make society become better and better with the continuous construction of young and middle-aged people.
Although a person is very cool when he is young and does not need to bear any responsibility, but when you are old, you will bear the loneliness and loneliness that ordinary people have never experienced. This video caused an uproar on the Internet. Many celibate felt touched after seeing the old man's video, as if they saw the shadow of themselves in their later years. Nowadays, most of us are only children. By the time we are here Generations are getting older, who will be with us at that time?
Of course, some netizens said that although the current situation of the old man seemed distressed, he should not just deal with his marriage hastily just because this incident touched him. After all, it is better to be happily and meaningfully single than to get married in a haphazard manner. Even if you are married, it does not mean that you will definitely face one or the other dilemma.
If you marry the wrong person, you will face decades of pain in the future. Others say that loneliness is actually nothing. Compared with those old people who are abandoned by their children and beaten and scolded by their children, this man is considered happy. Of course, some netizens quickly refuted that although marriage may be a mess, it can still be staying together for warmth.
In fact, our current view of marriage is largely influenced by the marital life status of our parents. Surveys and studies have shown that children who grow up in unhappy marriages and families tend to have more stricter requirements for marriage, and even pursue celibacy.
In fact, although today's society is extremely rich in material, it has allowed us to freely choose the way of life, and even if we are single for a lifetime, there is a high probability that when we get old, we can become, making people envious The handsome old man and old lady can often take a trip at the drop of a hat. In my opinion, the important role of marriage or family members is not only reflected in the family happiness in daily life, but also in the companionship in times of crisis.
In the European Middle Ages hundreds of years ago, a Black Death killed tens of millions of people in Europe. I still vaguely remember the bloody reality described in plague books , that is, people who live alone will not be discovered until their corpses stink. Nowadays, as the rate of living alone is getting higher and higher, it is not uncommon to see news reports about people living alone dying at home for unknown reasons and not being discovered until their rot.
Just imagine, although you can live a lifetime, there will be times when people will get sick, and there will also be times when they are old and frail and unable to go out. At that time, we have to wait for the care of the government. But if we regret it at that time Is it too late to make your own choice? As mentioned in the video, the old man does not play with mobile phones, does not watch TV, does not communicate with others, and spends his old age alone. What would he think in his heart?
I believe that when he was young, there must have been a girl who made his heart beat, but he did not grasp it well, and there must have been many people who advised him to get married early, but his stubbornness at the time made him choose to be free. , until now he is sitting freely in front of his room, quietly looking at Yunshu outside the sky, is he really so indifferent in his heart?
Some people say that marriage can make a person grow up quickly, and marriage can also make a person taste the warmth and warmth of the world. These words are not wrong. No one's life will be exactly the same. Life is like a book that you can never understand. Only by truly walking through it can you appreciate the ups and downs.
is the fairest time in the world, but will not give anyone a chance to wander. No matter whether the world is falling apart or not, time can always keep its fixed pace flowing slowly. But what should we do when the day comes that we really regret it?
Conclusion: No matter what method we choose, we should be prepared to face everything . We should face all difficulties that may occur with a positive attitude. Life is very long and very short, but the future is never known. I wish you good health.
