People often ask, does he care about me? He says he doesn’t love me, but sometimes he seems to be very concerned about me and says he loves me. Many times he doesn’t care about my affairs. If you look for him, it’s also love. Ignore it and say I'm busy.
I want to know if a man is really too busy to take care of you?
It is said that whether a man loves you or not depends not on words, but only on actions.
If you observe that a man is willing to leave space for you on these two points, he most likely loves you.
First of all, with you in my future life
If you love someone, you must want to grow old with them, not just on a whim.
Since you want to go on, you must think carefully about everything after marriage and marriage. You will not enter into marriage casually, which will not be responsible for each other.
He will even take the initiative to discuss with you where you want to buy a house, the decoration of the house and your life after marriage.
If you take the initiative to bring it up to him, and he doesn't want to answer the phone, but just says that the time has not come yet, or that he is not capable yet, then he almost doesn't want to take responsibility.
Because even if you can’t do it now, you must have a plan, otherwise where will the future be?
A man who really wants to be with you will give you a future and even a clear time. From every date to marriage, he will not let you have random thoughts.
But if he doesn’t take you to heart, he will be perfunctory. He will say whatever you say, who knows in the future, let’s live well now, so he will often tell you that we will talk about it later.
Of course, we should also be wary of the other party just talking nonsense without actual actions.
Su Qin said that women always complain that men are not romantic enough, but a man's true romance is to arrange you into his future. He hopes that you will participate in all life plans. This is the ultimate romance.
Just having a plan may be a big deal, so if there is a plan, it also depends on how he implements it step by step.
For example, are you working hard at work and making progress in your savings, so that you won’t be unable to afford a house even if you want to?
will not just lie to you for a while and then leave with claps in the end.
In addition to having you in the future, having you in a man’s money is also very important.
Many women have experienced after marriage that a man’s money has nothing to do with you. Today he will tell you that you will pay half of the mortgage, and tomorrow he will mention that he has no money to buy you a gift on Valentine’s Day.
In the future, you may not even be able to pay for your child’s tuition, so it will all be yours.
In the past, you might have understood that he was under a lot of pressure and hard work, and you would be considerate of him, but later you discovered that he just didn't care.
Although money does not mean that he loves you, his money has nothing to do with you, let alone that he loves you.
I can only say that he made a clear distinction between you.
Anita Yuen and Julian Cheung 's love is enviable. It's just that he has her in his future. Even if he leaves first, he has to worry about whether she has money to use.
He said, I am not afraid of death, I am afraid that I will be beautiful and have no money to spend.
This is probably the most beautiful love story.
So assuming that he doesn’t have it in his plan today, even if we reluctantly get together one day, his money will have nothing to do with you.
So you can actually feel whether I care about you or not.
What a woman wants is not brand-name bags or luxury cars, she just wants you to take her into your heart.
This kind of thinking is done in action. It is an act that truly gives people a sense of security, rather than empty words.
