When parents are here, there is still a way to go in life; when parents go, there is only a way back in life.
When parents are alive, their souls still have a place to go. When they come home, they still have parents calling and loving them. If your parents are gone, your home can only be called your hometown, because the person you care about most is no longer there.
As children, while time is still young and your parents are still alive, you should go home often and visit. Don't cut off family ties because of distance, don't forget your true feelings because of busy work, don't ignore your parents' expectations when you're struggling, and don't regret it when you "want to support your children but don't wait for them".
A netizen in Zhengzhou, Henan, shared a video on a social platform of "A son burst into tears for his late mother to close her account: Although she lived to be 92 years old, she had never experienced happiness in her life." It attracted countless netizens to watch and shed tears.
In the video, a man in his fifties canceled his deceased mother's account at the police station. The man looked at the various forms given by the staff and started to go through the procedures for canceling his mother's account. He couldn't control his sad emotions and wiped his tears while going through the procedures for canceling his mother's account.
I saw him carefully and repeatedly groping for his mother's ID. He was extremely sad and kept wiping away tears, and finally burst into tears.
The man said that his mother had never experienced happiness in her life, and she died when life got better. I was crying while writing, and my mother was at home. Once my mother's household registration is cancelled, there will be no trace of her presence in this world. It was not easy for the parents to raise seven sisters with all their hardships. Thinking of the mother's miserable life brings tears to her eyes.
The man said that when his mother was still alive, he was always busy outside making a living and rarely had time to go home to visit her. I always feel that my mother is still healthy and I will definitely have time to honor her.
Unexpectedly, when he made money, his living conditions improved, and he had enough ability to honor her, she would pass away. I really regret it now. I should have spent more time with my mother when she was here.
My mother has lived in the countryside all her life. She is hardworking and kind-hearted, but her life has always been very difficult. She lived a life of simple meals, raised seven children, and worked hard for her children all her life. Although she lived to the age of 92, she did not enjoy much happiness. The brothers and sisters were not doing well in the past, but the mother, despite her advanced age, still tried her best to help her children.
When the children were living well and everyone was able to honor her, she passed away. Thinking of my mother's miserable life, my heart bleeds with pain. I wish I could turn back time, chat with my mother again, and spend more time with my mother.
But all this will never happen again. I really hope that in the next life I will have the opportunity to honor my parents.
At the same time, the man also appealed to the children of the world to go home often while their parents are still alive, and not to regret it after their parents are gone.
If the money is gone, you can still make it again. If your friends are gone, you can still make friends. If your parents are gone, you really are gone!
Netizens couldn't help crying when they saw this scene.
Some netizens said that canceling the account means that this person will no longer exist in the world. Thinking of my beloved mother disappearing into the world like this and turning into a pile of loess, it makes everyone sad.
Some netizens said that life is accidental and death is inevitable. I know that everyone will leave, but I still can't accept this separation of life and death. I'm so scared to face this day. If this day really comes, I really don't know what to do?
Some netizens even said that they understand this feeling very well. I personally canceled my mother’s household registration and cut off a piece of her ID card. When my mother was around, she always used the excuse that she was very busy and had to make money, so she rarely had time to spend with her. After my mother passed away, I suddenly realized, how much money is enough? Life has a limit, and people's desire for money is endless. You should spend more time with your parents when you have time, and don’t regret it when you “want to support your children but your parents are not around”!
Editor's opinion
The most regrettable thing in life is that a child wants to be raised but cannot be cared for.
Many people around us are like this. When their parents are still alive, their love for their parents is actually just words and not put into action at all.
When my parents passed away, I recalled the few happy times I had with my parents, and began to regret that the time I spent with my mother was too short, and that I did not honor my parents properly.
The mother of the man in the video passed away at the age of 92, but she never enjoyed happiness. When the man was closing his mother's account, he thought of his mother's miserable life and that her mother had never thought about getting rich in her long life, and he suddenly felt very sad. The man is a typical child who wants to support his wife but refuses to be kissed.
Finally, I hope that children can go home and visit their parents often while they are still alive. If I really don’t have time, I might as well call home and have a look. What parents want is not for their children to be rich and powerful, but for their children to be by their side when they are old!
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