Introduction
With the continuous development of life, most families have led a well-off life. Families with elderly people will almost hire a nanny to take care of them at home. After all, children are now under a lot of pressure, especially after they start a family and start a career. It is even more difficult, so at this time, if there is a nanny around to take care of the elderly, then they can work with peace of mind, and the elderly will live happily. But if you want to hire a good nanny, there is a way to do it. If you find one, Without a good nanny, you will encounter a lot of troubles. A 78-year-old old man living alone advised: "When hiring a nanny in your later years, you must agree on these three conditions in advance. Only in this way can you live a happy life. ”, let’s take a look at the following story.
Uncle Cong is 78 years old
I am 78 years old this year. Before I retired, I was moving cement at the construction site. Being a cement worker was really hard, I didn’t have much money, and I was very tired every day, but I had to do it. After all, I understand what kind of family I belong to, so I have been doing this job of moving cement for decades.
At that time, my wife didn’t want me to do this job because there was a lot of cement dust before the cement was watered down. Excessive inhalation of cement dust is really bad for the lungs. After I did this, My health is getting worse and worse, so my wife doesn’t want me to do this anymore, but if I don’t do this, what else can I do? I don’t have as high an education as others, and I don’t have any skills. I started working at a young age, so I don’t know how to do many things. I can only move cement at the construction site, and I have no place to use my strength.
After I retired, I stopped doing it because my wife left me two years ago. We have two daughters. Although it is good to have daughters, it is impossible to rely on them. , I am married so far away that it costs hundreds of dollars to go there, and no father goes to his daughter’s home to provide for me in old age, so it’s even harder to get my daughter to take care of me in old age.
I can’t count on my two daughters. In addition to giving me living expenses every month, it is difficult for them to come back once. I have lived at home for several years, but there is no other way. As I get older, someone always needs to take care of me. , I didn’t want to go to the nursing home. I heard that the nursing home abused the elderly, and it was not as comfortable as living at home, so after thinking about it, I hired a nanny to come back and take care of me.
I have also learned about nannies before. There are people around me who have hired nannies, but after I saw them hiring nannies, I saw that they were not doing well. Instead, they were bullied by the nanny. If you don’t hire a nanny, If you have a good nanny, your old age will be very painful and even more tiring than when you live alone.
I have a brother who just hired a nanny. His nanny was very nice to him at the beginning. However, after a month, the nanny could not find anyone every day, and later she even stole my brother’s baby. She used the money to give to her children. Later, when my brother found out, she still refused to admit it. She was just too talkative when she saw my brother, so she didn’t take him to heart. My brother tolerated her several times, but she still refused. In this way, in the end, my brother fired her directly. Since then, he has never looked for a nanny to serve him. He even came to complain to me and told me that if I look for a nanny, I must think carefully, otherwise it will really happen. Kill yourself.
After listening to what he said, I began to be cautious about hiring a nanny. After all, I didn’t want to find a nanny like the one he hired before. After asking a few people about it, I probably got the idea. Now that I have some experience in hiring a nanny, I will tell you what kind of nanny is best to find. You must discuss three conditions with the nanny before hiring a nanny.
First: Before looking for a nanny, you must sign a contract with her and agree on some terms and wages in advance, otherwise you will be in trouble when negotiating the price midway.
My brother told me that his first nanny just went there At that time, he was very serious and hard-working, and asked her to do everything. He didn't even think about signing a contract before inviting her. He thought that in this age, there should be no such person, but it was his thoughts like this that harmed him. His subsequent life.
So, if an elderly person wants to hire a nanny, he must sign a contract with her in advance. What should be done and what should not be done. The salary is whatever is agreed upon. If you can't let someone do something halfway, you have to increase the salary. How can it be like that? In this case, wouldn’t the nanny market be in chaos? Some nannies think that their employers are old and ignorant, and they don’t care about so many things, so they do everything privately without going through the employer’s colleagues. When encountering such a willful nanny, the employer can only recognize it. Fucked.
Second: If you choose to be a nanny, then just be a nanny honestly and don’t think about being a hostess.
I have seen some female nannies become nannies because they want to find a rich person to rely on. I even want to turn a sparrow into a phoenix, just like the nanny of another friend of mine. Originally, my friend was quite satisfied with this nanny, but this female nanny was full of bad ideas. She was always thinking about how to cause trouble. My friend's attention, and then I did something in front of my friend, which made my friend feel very disgusted. I have told her several times that it is impossible to be with her, and asked her to do her job well. Don't think about anything else, but no matter how much my friend told her, she didn't listen. She even touched my friend in front of my friend, and even went to my friend's bedroom at night. If it wasn't My friend would have been raped if she had stayed awake.
She also told my friend directly that she wanted to be a hostess, but my friend didn't have this idea, and he didn't want to find a wife. It would be fine to live alone. Not only did she not listen to my friend, she also went around telling others , she was my friend’s wife, which made everyone ask him if it was true. At that time, my friend was very angry and never thought that he would meet such a woman. So in order to prevent others from misunderstanding, my friend decisively She was fired.
Third: The nanny cannot leave or ask for leave without my consent, leaving me unable to find someone.
What I hate most is that the nanny takes herself too seriously. Although, if she does a good job, she occasionally wants to hire someone. If she takes a vacation or wants to go home for a visit, I can also arrange time for her to go back and spend time with her family. What I hate most is that she doesn’t tell me before she wants to go home without my consent, or just before she wants to go home. , such a nanny is really a headache, and it also gives me time to find someone to replace her.
If there is something big, or if you need to take leave to go home, I will usually approve it. I am not a bad person. If you have something urgent, you can tell me. You can't suddenly be unable to find someone when I need you. , some nannies are just used to this. When their employer treats her well, they become too presumptuous. This is not acceptable.
The above three conditions must be explained clearly to the nanny. If not clearly stated, a female nanny really does not take the employer seriously. If something happens, the one who should sign the contract will sign the contract. That is After coming to these conclusions, all the nannies I hired were very nice to me and made me quite satisfied. So far, my later life has been very comfortable and comfortable.
Summary
The nannies in the past were quite honest and did their jobs diligently. They also understood what should be done and what should not be done, but now it is no longer possible. Today's nannies are too thoughtful and have great motivations. , it is really difficult to find a good nanny, so before hiring a nanny, you must mention these three conditions. Only in this way can you live a happy life in your later years.
