The probability of two people meeting is only 0.00478, so the probability of being lucky enough to become good friends is even smaller. I wonder if you are lucky enough to have a good friend by your side?
The frankness, trust, and love between you and your best friend make you each other's pistachio, listener, and adviser. It is not easy and very lucky to be a friend who stays with you until the end of your life.
But whether a person's life is long or short, he will always experience many accidents. People are emotional beings and have experienced many happy things with their best friends, so they become very sad when they lose a good friend.
6 Signs It's Time to Leave Your Best Friend:
01. You're doubting your friendship
You're almost completely different now than you were before. We once became each other's best friends because of common topics and interests, but now they are completely different. The relaxed and interesting conversations during meetings have become awkward and forced, and they are no longer the first thing that comes to mind when they are happy or sad. the other party.
★When you start to have doubts, first look for your own problems.
02. You no longer communicate
Even family members and partners cannot stay together all day long, let alone friends. The mode of getting along with friends is different at each stage. The only constant is to treat each other with a sincere heart. Even if you are very busy or separated, you will still think about replying to each other and look forward to meeting next time.
★Distance and busyness are no excuses.
03. You want different things
Everyone has their own plans and goals they want to achieve, especially what kind of person they want to be. But sometimes on the way forward, when what you and your best friend want are very different, it can be difficult to stick to the friendship, and staying together may hurt each other.
★Everyone grows at his own pace.
04. You find other friends
You may not even realize that you and your best friend start to drift apart, and you don't realize it until one day you make a new friend. But this does not mean that the new friend is your best friend, but you will find that you are more comfortable getting along with the new friend than your best friend.
★ Let go of the past friendship.
05. He betrayed your trust
Even if it is not friendship, in any relationship, trusting the other party is the basic condition for the beginning of a relationship. Only by trusting the other party can a relationship get better and better. If you have had many arguments and said many irreparable words, you are hurting a hard-won relationship.
★ All relationships must be honest and honest.
06. You are the only one who persists in the relationship
Friendship requires efforts from both parties to make the relationship go further and further. If it is just one person's unilateral contribution to the relationship, then one day he will feel tired, especially if he is rejected by the other party, then he will feel even more lost.
★Don’t hurt your own self-esteem, and don’t try to force the other person to change their mind.
In fact, no matter what, it is not easy for us to give up the people we like, but it is the right choice.
Friendship needs to ferment. New friends will come, and old friends will still be there. We need to find our own sense of balance.
People will change and become more mature and stable. We need to make ourselves better in every relationship.
None of us are perfect people, but we must make changes for the sake of friendship, learn to be tolerant, and treat others with heart.
Always remember that the best way for good friends to get along is to work hard and care about each other.
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Author introduction: Nuan Xinxin Zijiang (original name: Xiao Xiao who records life) ‖ Likes writing records ‖ Likes Crayon Shin-chan ‖ I believe that I will live a life I like in the future
