"I thought that by marrying an uncle, I could escape the ups and downs of this world, but I never expected that all my ups and downs were brought by my uncle."
This is what Wang Xiaoqing wrote on Douyin personal homepage The reason why she exposed her scars was to remind herself how stupid she was before, and to warn those young girls not to follow in her footsteps.
Wang Xiaoqing was born in a peasant family. Fortunately, she was able to study since she was a child. She finally jumped over the dragon gate and was admitted to a key university in Shanghai.
After graduating from college, she wanted to stay in this city, despite her mother's repeated reminders: We only have one daughter like you, so don't imitate your cousin, who married a Beijing man and came here after your aunt died. After you graduate, find a job in our county. This way you will be closer to us and Mom can count on you.
Wang Xiaoqing promised, but she made up her mind in her heart. She would not go back to her hometown to find a job and get married unless she had to. Who doesn't want to go to higher places?
After Wang Xiaoqing graduated, she did not return to her hometown. She told her mother that she wanted to find a job in Shanghai and then go back after accumulating some experience.
She first joined a decoration company and engaged in graphic design. It was in this company that she met Gao Yang.
Gao Yang is 42 years old, a full 20 years older than Wang Xiaoqing. He is not tall, has an upright appearance, is modest, and has the elegance of a middle-aged man.
Gao Yang has strong professional ability and gets along well with people in the company. He has worked in this company for nearly 10 years and has a lot of work experience. When Wang Xiaoqing first arrived, the company manager asked her to learn from Gao Yang.
Wang Xiaoqing was full of respect for the 42-year-old uncle, and Gao Yang also took good care of Wang Xiaoqing, so much so that everyone in the company thought Gao Yang wanted to pursue Wang Xiaoqing.
Wang Xiaoqing finally learned that Gao Yang had divorced five years ago. As for the reason, she did not know.
Gao Yang simply treated Wang Xiaoqing as his daughter. He often brought her sumptuous breakfasts and snacks from time to time. Wang Xiaoqing was flattered and enjoyed the care like a father.
Wang Xiaoqing is 22 years old. She is not tall and looks average, but she is young and well-educated, so Gao Yang has a purpose for being nice to her.
Under Gao Yang's fatherly care, Wang Xiaoqing was moved. No wonder, in her impression, her father always loved her younger brother more. She was also a person who had lacked father's love since she was a child. So she really felt warm towards Gao Yang's care.
When Wang Xiaoqing celebrated her 23rd birthday, Gao Yang bought a large bouquet of bright red roses and specially ordered a birthday cake for her. The two also had a candlelight dinner.
They talked a lot that night, and Wang Xiaoqing finally learned the reason for Gao Yang's divorce. It turned out that his ex-wife betrayed him, and he divorced in anger. They also have a son who is in high school and lives with his grandmother. Wang Xiaoqing felt a little more sympathy for Gao Yang.
Since then, the relationship between the two has reversed. Wang Xiaoqing began to bring breakfast to Gao Yang, and even went to his house to clean, wash and cook for him, just like a wife.
Gao Yang was very moved and proposed to Wang Xiaoqing. Wang Xiaoqing agreed. She also thought that Gao Yang had nothing to dissatisfy with except his age. Gao Yang was a man from Shanghai and had a house. Although he was divorced and had a son, his son and He was a grandma, so she didn't have to be a stepmother. Besides, by marrying Gao Yang, she can settle in Shanghai, which is something she has only dreamed of.
When she excitedly told her mother the good news, she met with strong opposition from her mother. Mother said: He is so much older than you, he can be your father. Are there no young men in Shanghai? Or a second marriage with children, what do you want from him?
Wang Xiaoqing couldn't hear it, she only thought about his and Gao Yang's bright future.
In the end, Wang Xiaoqing held a simple wedding with Gao Yang without the blessing of her parents.
What I didnât expect was that after marriage, Gao Yang was completely different from his previous self. First of all, he didnât care about hygiene and threw away clothes and socks casually. When Wang Xiaoqing talked about him, he smiled, but he still threw them away when he needed to. Secondly, he never gave her the money he earned, because she also had a salary, so she was embarrassed to ask for it. She thought he might have saved it all.
In the end, she found out that he gave everything to his ex-wife. She found out after looking at his mobile phone accidentally that day and seeing his transfer records.
She angrily asked Gao Yang why he transferred money to his ex-wife after the divorce. Seeing that Gao Yang could no longer hide it, he told the truth.
It turns out that the house they lived in was bought by him and his ex-wife, so the house was half of his ex-wifeâs. Before the divorce, he and his ex-wife had a dispute about the house. They either wanted the house or gave the other half of the house payment. She chose to get a house, but she needed to pay half of the house payment to her ex-wife, and Gao Yang couldn't afford that much money at once. Her ex-wife agreed that she would repay it in installments, just like paying off a mortgage, with a fixed amount every month. They signed a contract for twenty years. of installments.
Twenty years! Twenty years later, Gao Yang was 62 years old and retired after he had paid off his debt. In other words, in the next twenty years, she would not be able to spend Gao Yang's money. She could only earn money and spend it by herself. What does this have to do with being single? different?
She blamed Gao Yang for not telling her this before getting married. Gao Yang smiled bitterly and said: You didn't even ask me!
Wang Xiaoqing didn't understand. Didn't Gao Yang's ex-wife betray him? She made a mistake first, shouldn't she have left home? But Gao Yang said that this was the court's decision and there was nothing he could do.
Under such a situation, Gao Yang's monthly salary was very little left after paying the mortgage and giving his son some living expenses. Wang Xiaoqing was extremely depressed. This was so different from the married life she imagined.
Wang Xiaoqing regretted her choice a little, but at this time, she was pregnant. When she excitedly told Gao Yang the news, Gao Yang's reaction was indifferent, and he didn't feel the joy of being a father at all. Maybe he already had a son. Relationship.
Since she could not count on Gao Yang financially, Wang Xiaoqing almost did not dare to ask for leave during the entire pregnancy. She wanted to save more money for her unborn child, because after the child was born, she might not be able to go to work.
Wang Xiaoqing's daughter was born. Wang Xiaoqing originally planned to breastfeed, but for some reason there was no milk. She had no choice but to let her daughter drink milk powder. In this way, Wang Xiaoqing, who had not much savings, was quickly stretched. She wanted Gao Yang to Gao Yang first postponed the payment to his ex-wife until she went to work. Gao Yang said he would give it a try, but his ex-wife said: "It's okay if I don't give you any money. Then I'll live with you. Anyway, I have half the house."
Of course this didn't work. Gao Yang had no choice but to continue to send money to his ex-wife every month. This made Wang Xiaoqing very angry, but there was nothing he could do.
What made her even more annoyed was that Gao Yangâs son was living well with his grandma, but grandma suddenly suffered a stroke, and Gao Yang went to the hospital to take care of her. As a result, Gao Yang had no time to accompany their mother and daughter. Even when her daughter fell ill, Wang Xiaoqing She was also the one accompanying him, and she felt unspeakably aggrieved.
Gao Nan's mother was discharged from the hospital, but one of her children was left behind. Hemiplegia sequelae . This was really a disaster. Gao Yang had to go to work, so he had to take his mother to his home. There were also Gao Yang's son who was in high school, so there were two more people in the family. , Gao Yang's mother still needs to be taken care of, and Wang Xiaoqing's daughter is still so young, she can't go to work.
Gao Yang couldn't share the financial pressure for her. Now that there was an old man with mobility difficulties in the family, Wang Xiaoqing simply collapsed.
She doesnât know why she married Gao Yangtu? She obviously has a husband, but her life is no different from being widowed.
She originally thought that by marrying a man who had a successful career and a house, she thought that she would have someone to rely on and no longer had to worry about her future. She thought that by marrying a middle-aged uncle, he could protect her from wind and rain. Unexpectedly, all these storms were brought about by the uncle.
