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When men are young, they like women’s young and beautiful bodies and their youthful and energetic enthusiasm.
In terms of attitude towards relationships, they are willing to pay more for women, whether it is time, money, physical strength or feelings. Young men are always unsparing with young girls.
However, when middle-aged men want women and relationships, they are completely different from before. Especially after men reach the age of 50, the "couple life" they long for is often these kinds of feelings.
1. Women's care
When men are young, they like to take care of women. Whether it is working hard to make money for women, buying a house or car for women, or doing laundry, cooking, cleaning and housework for women, men are no exception.
As a man ages, his body becomes worse day by day. The physical fitness of a man in his 50s and a woman in her 50s is completely different.
When a man reaches the age of 50, he needs more care from a woman in his life, because he becomes unable to take care of the woman, and various problems will appear in his body.
Women should not think that taking care of a man's daily life is too hard, because when you are young, you are the enjoyer, and when a man is young, you are the one who is taken care of by him. When a man is young, his body is not as strong as before, and his physical strength is not as good as before. When the time comes, a woman needs to give her man more care and let him feel the benefits and meaning of marriage.
After a man turns 50, the "couple life" he longs for is for a woman to take meticulous care of him in life.
2. Physical spiritual companion
When a man is young, he likes to have an intimate relationship with you. He thinks this is the best proof that he loves you. He practices it personally and uses his own strength to like you.
After a man reaches the age of 50, he will feel unable to do what he wants in his married life. You may no longer have an intimate relationship, nor will you have physical comfort and communication.
It’s not that a man doesn’t want to have physical contact with you, but that in this aspect, his physical strength and functions in all aspects are declining, and he can no longer satisfy you.
After a man reaches the age of 50, what he needs is a soul mate, a woman who can give him spiritual comfort.
At this sensitive time, women must take care of men's self-esteem, take care of men's emotions from all aspects, adjust men's mentality, and enhance men's development of other interests.
From an emotional perspective, you have transitioned from close lovers to the stage of family affection, so you are already true spiritual partners.
usually communicate with him more, cultivate common interests between the two of you, talk more about topics he is interested in, participate in more outdoor activities, travel, go to movies, and eat different delicacies in each place.
Life is long, and there are many beautiful things worth doing. You can do it with him, so that you can continue to be the best couple and the best lover in spirit.
Sometimes, men and women must learn to accept reality. When their bodies are already old, they must learn to accept their fate. When they are old, they will be old. Everyone will have such a stage.
Every different stage of life has different meanings and missions. Enjoy the different touches that love and life bring to you at each stage.
3. Determination to stay together until old age
What men fear most is that when they get older, their wives and children will be separated.
When a woman is young, if a man does not meet your imagination of a perfect lover in some aspects, then you must communicate with him well so as not to leave you with any regrets.
If a woman always holds back in marriage and doesn't let the man understand your thoughts and dynamics, and wait until the man is older before you explode together, this is actually very unfair to the man.
Old men and women all want to live a stable life with the support of their loved ones. This is the benefit that people bring to themselves by getting married when they are young and enjoying their marriage when they are old.
When a man gets older, his charm is gone, his physical strength has declined, and his financial ability has become smaller. What he wants is no longer to attract the attention of young girls. What he wants is just you, who can protect you. Be by his side, accompany him through the long years, and accompany him through every peaceful day.
After a man turns 50, what he wants most is your determination to accompany him until he grows old.
If he once disappointed you when he was young, if he once left you speechless when he was young, and now the two of you can still live together, sleep together, and eat together, it also means that you two Their fate is really destined, and they are destined to be together for a lifetime.
Then try to be nice to the man and let everything in the past pass. Now that you have decided to go to the end together, then cherish the days when he is still alive and the days when you are still alive.
After all, the future is long, and it may not be possible to get what one wishes. For some people, the distance between turning around is a lifetime difference, and the separation between two worlds.
After a man reaches the age of 50, the "couple life" he longs for often has the following feelings:
What a man wants is for a woman to take care of herself in life. He knows that his physical abilities are not as good as yours in all aspects. He will be more dependent on you and more inseparable from you;
What men want is to become each other's physical and spiritual partners. Since there is nothing you can do about the intimate relationship, then they should be highly compatible in soul and look for more common fun. Looking for more meaningful topics;
What men want is a woman’s determination to accompany her until old age. Since she has decided to go to the end, let’s hold each other’s hands and spend these ordinary and trivial days together.
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