The woman in this picture is a very good, talented and beautiful woman. She also has a house and a car in the city, and she also runs a physical training class. If it weren't for the betrayal she suffered, If she hadn't thought too hard, her future would have been bright.
But because of her emotional trauma, she could not accept the reality. She plunged into the whirlpool of pain and could not get out. She became severely depressed and could not take care of herself, which made everyone who knew her sigh.
Many people feel it is a pity to see such an excellent woman become so depressed. It is really not worth it to fight for a scumbag.
But most women are like this. Even a strong woman who is successful in her career, vigorous and resolute at work, and always speaks her mind, sometimes falls into love, and becomes irrational and unable to be her true self. And this woman is a typical example.
Most of the women who are prone to depression are very strong-willed and particularly devoted to their feelings. They are the kindest and most innocent people, and they are also the most emotionally mysophobic. Because they put their feelings first and regard men as their own lives. When their feelings are hurt, they will kill such women.
In fact, through her example, she warns women who love first to learn to love themselves well, not to regard men as everything in their lives, and not to torture themselves because of men's faults.
A woman can only take good care of herself. The most severe revenge for a man who betrayed her is to make herself better and better, so good that she doesn’t look down on him; she wants to make her life better and better. , so good that he regretted it.
If a woman, for the sake of an unworthy man, is stuck in emotional pain for a long time and cannot get out of it, and tortures herself to the point of being out of shape, it will only make the man look down on you even more.
So, naive women, don’t believe that love can last forever. That kind of love is a myth. In real life, what can keep you from being depressed is the money in your bank card and the wisdom in your head.
I hope that all women who value feelings will not be trapped by love, have the ability to love others, and more importantly, have the ability to love yourself first, and never compromise with depression.
