Author: No. 1 Emotion
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In marriage life, husband and wife need to maintain a state of "yin and yang harmonious and complementary". If two people are too strong, conflicts will inevitably break out, thus affecting the relationship between husband and wife. .
Once there are too many conflicts, no matter how timely the mediation is, the relationship cannot return to its previous state, just like a broken mirror cannot be put back together, and water that has been thrown away cannot be taken back.
When a man marries the right person, he will definitely not look so strong. On the contrary, he will not always wear armor to protect himself. Instead, he will look very weak in front of the one he loves, but he can also feel his happiness.
In fact, it’s not that men are not tough enough, but that they are willing to show weakness in front of the people they like. Only in this way can women understand men better, and the relationship between husband and wife will become sweeter and sweeter.
To be honest, men who know how to show weakness are very smart and can make their wives more considerate, which just complements each other.
When a man is willing to show weakness to a woman, it means that he has married the right person.
A man's "weakness" is manifested in his reluctance to let women suffer.
A man's weakness is obviously not a flaw in himself, but entirely to take care of women's feelings.
In married life, the most stupid thing to do is to fight your partner to the end, but so what if you win in the end? Not only was his wife wronged, but the family was also in a state of uproar.
Even if the two get back together in the future, after learning from the past, the woman will no longer give wholeheartedly, because she has never been able to feel the feeling of being cherished and cared for, and the harm to her can never be eliminated. .
She will feel that the man around her does not love her, or does not love her as deeply as she imagined, so she will naturally have reservations.
After a man marries the right person, the smartest thing to do is not to let the woman be wronged. It doesn't matter even if he is wronged, as long as his wife is not affected.
In fact, everyone knows very well that those men who are very tough in front of their wives may seem to have a lot of face on the outside, but in fact it also shows how bad they are. They don’t even know how to protect the women they love. They are obviously very stupid. the behavior of.
A man's "weakness" is reflected in taking the initiative to calm conflicts
In marriage, a man's weakness is a sign of high emotional intelligence, which can effectively calm the conflicts between husband and wife, enhance the relationship between two people, and is conducive to the stability and development of married life. .
Men don’t take enough responsibility and don’t know how to cherish and care for the women around them, so they act very tough. It seems that they are subduing women, but in fact they have already thought about leaving. I believe it won’t take long for the relationship to crack. .
On the contrary, men who know how to show weakness can effectively maintain the relationship between husband and wife, and let women know how to cherish and give, so that married life can go longer.
Just like Zhou Bingkun in "human world", he has been in a state of showing weakness to Zheng Juan in his marriage, so that she also gave her all for the stability of the marriage, and then she had a happy marriage.
For Zheng Juan, what she loves is Zhou Bingkun's character. He is not competitive or chauvinistic, but wants to give Zheng Juan a stable life and knows how to care for and care for her. This is what a woman needs most. Ideal emotional state.
In fact, what couples should pay attention to is a state of "taking a step back to open up the world." If everyone could do this, there would be no broken marriages in the world.
A man who marries the right person will often have a stable family.
A man who marries the right person will not have too many worries. He only needs to advance his career, because his family will always be stable.
The reason why he chooses to show weakness is that in addition to loving his partner deeply, he also hopes that his wife can understand his difficulties and take good care of the entire family. With each other performing their duties, life will only become better and better.
Some people say that when a man shows weakness, it is a sign of fear of his wife. In fact, it can be said that, but there is no shame in being afraid of his wife. What is really shameful are those men who are tough with their wives and end up in a broken family. If they want to show weakness again then, they will late.
For a woman, being able to marry a man who takes the initiative to show weakness to her is also a particularly happy and beautiful thing. At least her future life will be happy and her marriage will be particularly stable.
When a man knows how to show weakness, he actually knows how to maintain a marriage, how to make everything better, and make the family happier and more fulfilled.
