Do you know what true love is? There are certainly various answers to this question. Some people will say that true love means never leaving; some people will say that true love means sharing joys and sorrows; some people will say that true love means selfless dedication. Yes, none of these answers are wrong.
In a relationship, once a woman falls in love with a man, she only has this man in her eyes and heart, and she will rush to get married. There is no woman who does not long to spend her life with the man she loves.
But in real life, many men and women who were deeply in love at the beginning broke up as they walked away, and the love faded away. Women are always the ones who are easily hurt, because women are too infatuated, too emotional, and too emotional. . When a relationship ends, women often can't get out of it for a long time.
So, women always like to ask men what it is like to really love a woman? In fact, as long as a man meets the following ten points, it is truly true love.
1. Always put you first. A man who truly loves you will put you first in everything. No matter what he does, he will first consider your feelings. Your position in his heart will always be the first, and nothing else will. They are all second, third and fourth.
2. I am willing to share the joys and sorrows with you. There is a saying: "Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes." This is used to describe many couples in real life who choose to part ways in difficulties because of selfishness. They say it is easy to share joys and sorrows, but it is difficult to share hardships. If a man continues to support and accompany you when you encounter difficulties, and will never leave you, this is true love.
3. Don’t care about your past, cherish your present. Some narrow-minded men always like to talk about women’s past, not only retracing women’s scars but also spreading salt on them. But if a man really loves you, he won't care about your past. He will only use love to heal everything about you and cherish you.
4. Give you a full sense of security in money. If a man really loves you, he will definitely find ways to make you live happily and have no worries about food and clothing. A man who really loves you will never be lenient with your money. Even if he only has ten dollars, he will give you nine dollars.
5. When quarreling, be willing to take the initiative to compromise. We all know that women are stingy and like to act coquettishly. They want to win or lose in everything. If a man truly loves you, as long as you don’t do too much and don’t touch him. The bottom line is that every time we quarrel, he will admit defeat first, take the initiative to admit his mistakes to you, and take the initiative to comfort you. A man who truly loves you is the most afraid of you being wronged and sad.
6. Control your desires. In real life, many men are like this. They eat from the bowl and look at the pot, with red flags at home and colorful flags fluttering outside. Such a man doesn’t love his woman at all. He Love only yourself. If a man can only hold you in his heart, control himself for you, watch his belt, and not get involved with women, then it means that his love for you is true.
7. In front of him, you can be yourself unscrupulously. If you are shorter, he will not laugh at you. In his eyes, he thinks you are cute. If you are fatter, he will not hit you. He says you are so greedy, but he always I keep buying you the things you like to eat. In front of him, you don't have to be careful or pretend to be yourself, just be yourself easily.
8. I like to surprise you and create romance. It is said that women have three major needs, which are security, romance and being coaxed. A man who truly loves you will think of you all the time. He will take great care to understand your preferences and cater to your preferences. He will surprise you and create romance on some important festivals.
9. Respect you and respect your family. They all say that if you love someone, you must love everything about them. I deeply believe it. If a man truly loves you, he will respect you and all your family members.
10. I am willing to change for you, a person’s character and temper are innate. Some men have very bad tempers, but if a man calms down his temper and speaks softly to you because of you, that really puts you on the top of his mind. Chen Xiaochun once said: For the person you love, you are willing to change for her, unless you don't want to or don't want to. Therefore, someone who truly loves you will change himself based on some of your needs.
