Attending her sister's wedding was originally a happy day, but for He Xuxun, it was the beginning of a nightmare. At the wedding, He Xingxun was defiled by the Wan Chuan family members in the name of a wedding. No one came to help her even though she screamed.
In the end, it was her sister who saved her. Her untied clothes and the fear in her eyes were all accusing her of the evil deeds that had just happened. Since this incident, He Xuxun has been bored in the room every day without talking. Even taking a shower three times a day is not enough.
But in the face of the injustice done to her daughter, He's mother's performance was not satisfactory. He Xuxun sought justice for his sister, but He's mother stopped him, and put the blame on her sister for the fact that her family was almost broken.
He Lucky is both weak and strong
He Lucky was not only molested at the wedding, but also abandoned by her boyfriend . No matter how He Xuxun defended himself, Daxun thought that He Xuxun was dirty, so the two broke up.
It stands to reason that such a man is not worthy of being sad at all, but why is she still so sad and even seeking death? In fact, the root of the matter can be found in some words said by He's mother. The mother's values have been affecting the two daughters.
After He Xingxing returned home, he was confused all day long and felt that his life was meaningless. During this period, as a mother, she did not provide timely support to her daughter after she was hurt. It was not until his sister came that He Xuxun began to gradually come out.
Regarding his sister's abnormality, He Xingfu was also very puzzled and said: Just because of this, you feel that life is meaningless? Don't be so obsessive. My sister and mother are both proud of you. You are the only one within a few dozen miles who has been admitted to a good university. Don't risk life and death at every turn.
The reason why He Xingxing collapsed is that his mother raised his sister and himself alone, and his sister even dropped out of school for her sake. Of course, He Xingxun knows the sacrifices of her mother and sister, and she can only repay them by studying hard. But after graduating from college, she had been facing obstacles in finding a job, and she felt the cruelty of society.
Originally Daxun's father could help her find a job, Now the two have broken up, and there is no hope of finding a job. The reputation of a good university has become a source of pressure for He Lucky. She desperately wants to be the pride of her mother and sister, but she can't do it.
Coupled with the marriage troubles and breaking up with her boyfriend, a series of bad things made her collapse. For He Xuxun, it may no longer matter whether she wants to say that or not. What breaks her down is that she is so powerless in the face of life.
The elder sister wanted to explain to her younger sister, but Mother He quickly stopped her and said that marriage was not a big deal in the village at all, and spreading the word would only make the words worse. Regarding He Xuxun's current situation, He's mother only said that things will get better soon.
Later, because He Xingxun insisted on speaking out, she almost got divorced. He's mother even blamed everything on He Xingxing. "This is all for you" became the most touching words . He Xuxun knew that his family was in trouble and that his sister would not go to junior high school because of him. But when these words were spoken by my mother again, would only turn into knives piercing her heart.
He Xingxing has a weak character and faces Daxun's abandonment. Because He Xingxun really relied on Daxun, was even ready to get married in the future. But when Daxun abandoned her, He Lucky realized that no matter how hard he worked or how good he was, he was still inferior in their eyes.
It stands to reason that it would be a good thing to discover Daxun's unreliability as early as possible and avoid the lightning early, but why he is lucky enough to be here can't figure it out. In fact, the root cause lies in his inner weakness . He Xuxun had a weak character with a hint of strength, so he left home and went to the city. In the letter, He Xuxun said that no matter how the incident ended, she no longer cared. She hoped that she could take root in the city and take her sister and mother to live a good life in the future.
How lucky is she in the city? No matter how difficult it is, gritted her teeth and came over little by little. Even Guan Tao wanted to help her, but he was rejected. Weak in love, but strong in life, this is He Xingxing's character.
How can there be no happiness?
Compared to his younger sister who is weak and strong, He Xingfu is also the same. On the surface, he has a strong personality, but he is extremely weak in love.. Strongness is due to the hardships in life that created the two sisters, while weakness is the result of the mother unconsciously bringing it into the character of her children.
After her husband died, He's mother raised the two children alone. Without a man, weakness is inevitable in life. It was not his intention to swallow his anger, but he had no choice but to know that it had already affected the children.
When He Xingfu married Wang Qinglai, my sister was very confused as to why she would choose him, and felt that she was at a loss. He Xingfu said that he was not a wealthy lady, and Wang Qinglai was honest and willing to work, neither smoking nor gambling. Compared to her elder sister who is a fan of authority, my younger sister can see at a glance that her brother-in-law is not honest but cowardly.
He Xingfu is strong. It stands to reason that finding an honest husband is not a bad thing, but finding someone who is too honest is not a bad thing. It's like the whole Wang family doesn't understand why she insists on offending the village secretary for an explanation. Regarding He Xuxun's experience, Wang Qinglai could only persuade his wife to be more tolerant, saying that he was from a small family and could not afford to offend them . Blind weakness and concession are obviously not what He Xingfu wants, and this is just a conflict that broke out right after getting married.
The two met on a blind date and did not have a deep understanding before this. Maybe they both think that the other is suitable for living together, but are they really suitable with such huge differences in personality?
The Wang family's parents kowtowed and asked for a chance to apologize. After going to apologize, He Xingfu insisted on giving an explanation, causing the two families to part ways. Obviously her husband was dissatisfied with He Xingfu's performance. thought that she had turned the family upside down and was still causing trouble. Wang Qinglai has opinions, but according to his character, he will never say it out loud. If he doesn't say it out, it will already show on his face.
Fortunately, He Xingfu was not the one who kept things under wraps and made his words clear. Wang Qinglai still insisted on apologizing, and He Xingfu said directly: I still feel aggrieved in my heart. You, a husband, just watch me being brutalized by others. You don’t even dare to fart, so you have the nerve to let me go. I'm going to apologize.
Wang Qinglai doesn't know how to express his opinions, and he only hides his opinions on his wife, leaving his wife at her parents' home. That's why He Xingfu said something about her husband's pettiness at her mother's house. What kind of skill does it have to play tricks with his wife. Although He Xingfu is strong, he is very confused when it comes to his marriage.
Although He Xingfu has never gone to school, he is a smart person, so he wants to make things bigger. Wang Qinglai is conservative and can understand some things , but if he goes to the city, the conflict between the two will be amplified . Later, He Xingfu had no choice but to go to the city because he offended people in Wanjiazhuang through his appeal.
When a person like He Xingfu comes to the city, will just be like a bird out of its cage, with greater ideals. But Wang Qinglai is a man who lives his life with his wife on the hot bed, and is not interested in his wife's ideals.
In terms of future planning, they had conflicts, and their marriage also turned red.. After Guan Tao met He Xuxun, he obviously liked her. Even if there were big problems in He Xingfu's marriage, he chose to continue to maintain the marriage because he had a child.
Although he suffered a setback in his marriage, he was very successful in his career. After returning to Wanjiazhuang, he became the new leader.
In fact, both sisters have a problem. is extremely weak in love, and the root cause of this is the lack of a father when they were growing up. Their mother raised them all by herself, and they all saw the suffering they suffered. The hardships in life made them tough.
Only the mother's weakness has long penetrated into their characters. Even if Daxun is a scumbag, He Xingfu still hopes to rely on him; Wang Qinglai is so weak, and the two of them have constant conflicts, and He Xingfu will not end this marriage. .
Because they need a support in their hearts to maintain their strength, even if this support does not really exist.
Conclusion
He's mother's weakness is also due to the hardships of life, but as a mother, you must be strong, and you should be strong when there are some things. Excessive weakness will bring great harm to children.
