exit, the elderly can go to many places for recreation, but there are three places that they must not go to. Why do you say that? The old man's personal experience explains everything. Don't think this is just an isolated case. What I want to say is that there are many such cases in these people's lives. If you don't pay attention, it will probably be like this.
There are some things we have to pay attention to and these things are very harmful. Just like the old man in the article. It wasn't until something happened that I realized I couldn't go, but it was already over. I hope that through this case, everyone will pay attention to what is going on? Let's take a look together. The 68-year-old man cried: After retirement, not being able to go to these three places will cause great harm to people.
Case story sharer,
68-year-old Uncle Li:
Only now do I know that you cannot go to these three places after quitting. No matter how boring you are, no matter how curious you are, if you can't go to these three places, don't go, otherwise you will most likely end up like me now. Let’s talk about the first type of place first. I lost my wife in a place like this. Doesn't it sound ridiculous? I mean what I say.
I have been married to my wife for life. But I didn't expect that my wife would be entertained in this place. After retirement, I was extremely bored. Like everyone else, I had nothing to do and didn’t know how to pass the time. Thinking about how to kill time every day. But my wife is very busy.
After my wife retired, she still worked for a friend. I have not worked since I retired and have always stayed at home. Suddenly one day I saw others dancing ballroom dance . What are all these people doing? When I got closer, I realized it was a ballroom dance. Seeing other people dancing so happily makes me want to dance too.
But I can’t. I went there for many days in a row. Those who were dancing noticed me. Then an old man named Xiao Zhang taught me how to dance. Xiao Zhang is younger than me, so Xiao Zhang asked me to call him Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang told me, do you want to dance? If so I can teach you.
Just like this, Xiao Zhang and I danced ballroom dance. Within a few days, my son found out about this. I thought it was nothing, I could dance with everyone else, and I just wanted to dance with him and didn’t do anything. But my son scolded me, "I'm old, why don't I do other things?" It's easy to get into trouble while dancing ballroom.
There are many cases like this around me. If you get too close when dancing, the woman will make you faint. If you don't believe it, just do whatever you want. If I don't let you dance, you have to dance. I don't want to talk, I'll just go dance. My wife also knew about this. But my wife can't take care of that much, she is very busy at work.
I told my wife that I am not a dancer now and will dance in the future. I will not dance in the future. When you get tired of it, you won’t dance anymore. The woman was very close to me while dancing. I felt the hormones instantly. It's true, we were too close while dancing. Old people can't dance ballroom.
To put it bluntly, this dance is performed by hugging each other. The woman put her hands on my waist, and I put my hands on his shoulders. Then the woman put her other hand on my shoulder, and I put my other hand on her waist. Sometimes I would put my arms around his waist and raise his legs.
Unknowingly, I found that I was obsessed with this dance. And that woman was very nice to me. Sometimes I quarrel with my wife because of this woman. I don't want to be like this either. But I can’t explain why I’m not in control. This is also something that many elderly people have encountered.
My wife found out about this later. Fight with me. I went out to eat that night. I didn't care about my wife. After I came back, my wife quarreled with me again. The more this happens, the more I don't want to care about my wife. I even asked that woman to come out and accompany me. The woman I complained to was Xiao Zhang.
I drank a lot that night. I don't know what happened either. When I woke up, I was at Xiao Zhang's house.Xiao Zhang told me what happened between the two of us, and then Xiao Zhang asked me to make it up to him. At first I thought it was an accident. But for the sake of the family and for the sake of hiding this matter. I agreed to compensate.
What I didn't expect was that after starting this, there would be no end. At the beginning, I was asked to pay 5,000 yuan. Later, he asked me for money. If he didn't give it, he told my wife about it. I still wanted to refute, but then I realized that I had fallen into someone else's trap. There is no use in retorting, I have given money, but my wife will not believe me even if I say anything. Xiao Zhang took my money again and again.
In the end, my wife also realized how weak my explanation was. And I often hang out with Xiao Zhang. It used to be to dance with him, but later it was forced. But my wife didn't believe what I said. My wife was so angry about this. Moreover, the woman asked me to give money. If I didn’t give it, he would tell my wife these things.
In anger, I hit the woman. It was the woman who told my wife about this directly. My wife committed suicide by jumping off a building. My wife is like this. Later I called the police to deal with the matter. You really can't go to this kind of place. Do you think dancing there is a way to pass the time? Wrong, it is to entertain the rest of your life and your happiness.
Just like what I am now, I will harm myself and my wife if I don’t go there to kill time. So will it still end like this? My wife has been with me all her life, and she cares about me the most. My wife thought I liked someone else, and then I would give money to someone else... I was wrong, but it was already too late.
The second place you can't go is playing cards. You absolutely cannot go to this kind of place. There are many people playing cards in the park. After my wife passed away, I also went to those places. I used to dance, but I know I can't do it anymore. I harmed myself and my wife, and this incident has already cast a shadow on me.
So I stopped dancing for fun. Still playing cards. I went with my good friend. I didn't think about it at first, but gradually they took me to a place mysteriously. Originally I thought it was just an ordinary card game. But it’s wrong. If it was just an ordinary card game, why would they bring me to this place?
Later I found out what ordinary playing cards are. They turned it into gambling. I left first, but they said it was only a few dollars and a few cents, so we couldn't charge anything and we couldn't win anything. We were just killing time. I saw many of my friends playing here.
including my good friends are also here. Then I played here too. I won a few hundred dollars when I first started. What I didn't expect was that they let me win on purpose. I can’t bear to let my wife trap the wolf. This is their wise words. At the beginning, I deliberately let you win, and then slowly let you talk.
will then start to induce you to borrow money from them. How many old people have lost everything because of gambling. I also lost a lot of money because of this. Later my son found out. At that time I had lost more than 20,000. And he still owes more than 30,000 yuan. I owe 35,000. I had no money to pay back, so my son helped me pay back the money.
My son said to me, who took you there? Don't know what to say. But my son still found out later. I only know that I went there with my good friend. Then my son took the IOU and went to see my good friend. Let my good friend pay back the money. The relationship between the two of us was very good, but we severed our relationship because of this incident.
My lifelong good brother is gone like this. Moreover, my son also beat my good friend’s son because of this incident. Who can be blamed for this? If I hadn't gone to a place like this for fun. So will this happen again? Now I know the mistake, but it's too late.
Maybe tens of thousands of yuan is nothing to you, but to me, tens of thousands of yuan is already a lot, and my son helped me pay back the remaining 30,000 yuan. So you can’t go to such a place.The third type of place is a place with benefits. There is nothing free in the world, so why do people give you benefits?
If you think about it, you will understand why. There are many places in our country that give out welfare, such as giving eggs to attend lectures or giving moon cakes and rice dumplings. Anyway, it’s just welfare, there are all kinds of benefits, some even give you a mobile phone, everything. As long as you go there to listen to lectures and interact with them, there will be so many gifts that you can’t take them all.
Many old people go there. I went there too. I went there because I wanted to change my mobile phone. They said that as long as I participated in the interaction and got the first place, I could get the mobile phone. Finally I got my phone and that's when I found out what health products they wanted me to buy. Originally I didn't want to buy it, but they tried their best to brainwash me. It’s just over 900 yuan.
Then I bought it. I think this phone is worth one or two thousand yuan. And now they say that I just used the money from my mobile phone to buy the product, so it’s okay. After using those products, I feel the effect is quite good. Then I purchased again. Later I discovered that it was not the effect but the psychological effect.
Old people are like this, and most things are psychological. I feel uncomfortable. In fact, it's not because of illness or because of your psychology. What do you think is wrong with you? For example, I feel out of breath, or feel dizzy. But sometimes I feel like I'm going to die.
These are all the effects of your own psychology. If you don’t want to, it won’t be such a thing at all. And many old people always think that they have something to do, including me. Then I bought a lot of those products. Some health products or health care products, it’s enough to buy them for more than 8,000 yuan anyway. Later my son found out and called the police on me. Originally I didn't call the police on my son.
The police are here, I know those are three-no products. It's not nice to say it, but actually these are just some sugar water. It has no effect at all. They just took advantage of the old man's psychology. Then the old man's money will be stolen. Just like I always thought that something was wrong with me, especially after they told me about the symptoms, I felt that I was the same. I feel dizzy when I wake up in the morning and can't sleep at night.
I thought I was really in trouble, but now I know that I was deceived. After going through these things, I realized that these three places are really not allowed to go. Don’t even think about spending time in these 3 places. These three places will only harm you.
These three places are very harmful to people. How many elderly people have been harmed by this kind of place. So I went too far, and I felt stupid. I have actually been thrown into pits in these three places. It doesn't matter if people are tricked by one kind of place, but I was tricked by all three kinds of places. Forget it, I won’t talk about myself anymore.
The reason why I mentioned this matter today is to remind all the elderly. Don’t go to these three places. Don't go there for fun. It's really harmful. If you don't want to be like me, then don't go. Otherwise, you may end up like me and bear the consequences.
Conclusion:
is indeed the case. I believe there are many elderly people who have been tricked by these three places. If you can avoid going to these three places, try not to go, not only for yourself, but also for your family. What happened to you? Who will be responsible for you? Not your child yet?
Just take responsibility for you, and you may even harm your children because of this matter. Just like the old man in the article, if your children pay for this matter, more than 30,000 yuan is a lot. To put it bluntly, some young people cannot make more than 30,000 yuan a year. Wait, you will be cheated by others all of a sudden, so much money.
If it were me, I would feel bad too, let alone you harming yourself because of this matter. For your own sake and your family’s sake, don’t go to these places, otherwise you will end up like the old man in the article. Don't think that you are an exception. There are no exceptions in this world.
If you don't pay attention to some things, the next unexpected thing will be that you are not afraid of 10,000, but are afraid of the accident. For yourself and your family, if you can avoid going to these three places, try not to go. If you are not responsible for yourself, no one will care about you. If you want others to be responsible for you, you must first learn to be responsible for yourself. Do you understand? Don't let such a tragedy happen again, okay?
