Text/Xia Mo 01. The language in the preface can convey warmth, sweetness and tenderness. However, language can also convey indifference, disdain and perfunctoryness. Language can also allow each other to see the changes in the lover's mood, accurately understand the lover's needs

text/Xia Mo

01, preface

Language can convey warmth, sweetness and tenderness. However, language can also convey indifference, disdain and perfunctoryness. Language can also allow each other to see the changes in the lover's mood, accurately understand the lover's needs, and give the lover more care.

When falling in love, women often show a state of "duplicity" when speaking. Many times, a woman's words contain many layers of meaning.

Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "I just hope that there will be someone who knows that I am not really okay when I say I am okay, and someone who will know that I am not really happy when I am forcing a smile."

If, When falling in love, a man only interprets what a woman says superficially, and is likely to ignore the emotional needs that a woman really wants to express, thereby missing the opportunity to get close to her.

In particular, when a woman says: "I fell asleep" on different occasions and at different times, she is giving different hints to men. Men, remember to pay attention to screening.

A woman who says "I'm asleep" to a man actually hides her hint.

02. What does it mean to say "I fell asleep" after a quarrel?

When two people are in love, it is inevitable that there will be friction and conflict between two people. For example, after a quarrel, a man talks to a woman and she says "I fell asleep". In fact, she is not really tired.

Rather, it is expressing: "I'm angry, what will you do?" It implies that the man comes up with a solution and attitude to the problem, waiting for the man to coax her.

When a woman gets angry and says "I'm asleep", it seems she is refusing to communicate with the man. In fact, she is testing how much the man loves her.

If a man really responds "You go to bed", the woman will definitely be even more angry. It may even make a woman doubt whether a man really loves her, and the relationship between two people will be shaken by conflicts.

If men cannot take the initiative to resolve the crisis between each other in time, there will be more troubles and misunderstandings in the days to come.

When a quarrel between partners is over, don’t listen to a woman say “I’m asleep” and then stop disturbing her. Instead, you should carefully consider the original intention of a woman's emotions and then solve the problem in a targeted manner.

Only when men show attitude and come up with solutions can women truly sleep peacefully at night.

03. Say "I fell asleep" after getting off the night shift

Love adds a lot of deliciousness to life, but life is more than love. For women, there are still dreams and careers to pursue.

Work can give women a sense of accomplishment and security, but it also takes away more of their time and energy.

When a woman comes home from the evening shift, she still has to face housework. If there is still unfinished work, she still has to spend time on work. If a woman doesn't want to say a word when she comes back from get off work late at night, it's because she is very tired.

The man finally waited until the woman got off work, but when she chatted with her, she said "I fell asleep." In fact, it was not that she didn't want to listen to what the man had to say, but that she was under too much psychological pressure and the burden on her body was too heavy. She was exhausted and could not even communicate. No strength left.

When a woman says "I'm asleep" to a man, she is expressing that she needs to rest and that she needs a man to share her burden.

At the same time, he is also longing for the understanding and care of men. I hope he will stop chatting with her and let her rest. Because I am really sleepy and tired.

What men need to do is to grow up quickly. They must not only have the ability to take care of the family, but also have the vision to take care of women. Life and family are not just the responsibilities of a woman alone, but are faced by two people together.

04. Suddenly said, "I fell asleep"

Shakespeare said: "Women fall in love with their ears, but if men fall in love, they fall in love with their eyes."

Language can help a woman understand better man.

In love, women use their ears to listen and feel love.When a woman doesn't like a man, she will use the words "I fell asleep" to terminate communication with him.

Maybe it’s because he feels that the two people are not talking to each other, or maybe he feels that the two people are not similar in outlook, and any further conversation will only lead to trouble. When a woman doesn’t want to continue chatting with a man, she doesn’t have a good impression of the man.

If a woman doesn’t want to continue chatting with a man, she will close her heart.

When a woman rejects someone thousands of miles away by saying "I'm asleep", she no longer wants to continue to promote the development of the relationship, but chooses to politely refuse.

Especially, when two people have not yet determined their relationship, when chatting, the woman always responds to the man sentence by sentence. When chatting at night, she often responds to the man with the words "I fell asleep" in a boring way. This is a rejection of the man's pursuit. At the same time, it also means that she has chosen to give up and continue the development of the relationship.

If a man is rejected by women for many times on such grounds, he should think carefully about whether it is really suitable for you to be together? Think again about what went wrong between the two people, and then solve the problem at its root.

05, summary

Men, if you love a woman deeply, please understand the woman's thoughts through what the woman says.

When two people are getting along, there are potential reasons for a woman to end the conversation by saying "I fell asleep".

Women are used to duplicity. Saying "It's okay" is probably because they want more attention. And saying "I'm asleep" late at night may just mean to end the conversation between two people, or it may be that she is angry and wants to see if the other person will understand her and make her happy.

When a woman says "I'm asleep" and you can't figure out what she really wants to express, you can respond to her with a love story and express your love for her in her words.

Maybe, at that moment, she will open her heart and continue chatting with you. Love can also develop better.

Belinsky said: "Love is the harmony and tacit understanding of two close souls in life and faithfulness, kindness, and beautiful things."

If a man can understand a woman's mind and properly handle the problems between two people, This will allow the relationship to run better.

In life, if a man can observe a woman's thoughts, detect her needs from her words, and hide love in every detail of life, a woman will be able to feel the man's warmth and care.

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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional mentor, psychology scholar, over 1 billion popular emotional writer on the Internet, and manager of happy women. He has focused on emotions, gender, and answering questions for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.