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Lu Meng wrote in " Po Kiln Fu ": "Indicate blessings and fortune, destiny has been arranged, who doesn't want wealth? If a person doesn't follow the basic eight characters, how can he be your prime minister?"
This is the destiny of life. Blessings are actually arranged, and who doesn’t want to be rich and wealthy? Man, if you don’t have this destiny, how can you have a high official position and a generous salary?
When I was young, I didn’t understand fate. I just felt that all gains and losses were related to myself. Only after middle age will you fully understand that all gains and losses are 70% personal and 30% God’s will.
The most holy teacher Confucius said that time is also destiny, start carefully and end well, do your best in human affairs, and obey the destiny.
When Confucius was young, he read poetry and classics, determined to travel around the world, and persuade the kings of each country to use benevolence and righteousness as the basis for governing the world. However, Confucius still couldn't get what he wanted, and in the end he almost starved to death on the way.
Only after he reached middle age did he realize that there were many things that he did not have the final say on. The outcome depends on God's will. The most people can say is "just do your best".
In the vast world, people are too small, how can they change reality?
For ordinary people, just do your part and that's it. Everything else is arranged by fate.
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How much food a person can eat in this life is determined.
A master of traditional Chinese culture once said that many things seem to be decided by you, but in fact, everything you do and all the problems you encounter are calculated by fate.
You plot against people, God plots against you. No matter at any time, no matter how arrogant people are, they can never compete with the way of heaven.
Some people die young. Is that their problem? Some people encounter accidents while walking. Is that their problem? Some people are kind throughout their lives, but they never hit the right path. Is that their problem?
Professor Zeng Shiqiang put forward such a point of view, for God's sake, as long as it drops a few degrees today and rises a few degrees tomorrow, many people will be taken away by the cold and the heat.
people, it is better to have a humble heart. Do your best in everything, but don't get too entangled. This is the saying "Everything depends on people, and everything depends on God."
He is destined to be famous all over the world in his life, and then he will encounter various opportunities. If he is in a miserable life, he will not meet noble people and opportunities. This seems to be a human problem, but in fact, it is still a life problem.
For example, some people are destined to be wealthy, some are destined to work hard, some people are on the rich list, and some are still workers on construction sites. The difference lies in talent, ability, and destiny.
Of course, talents and abilities are also given to us by God.
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A person is destined to live as long as he wants in this life.
Lu Mengzheng wrote in "Ode to the Broken Kiln": " Yan Hui has a short life, how can he be a violent person? Robber Zhi is old, and he is not a virtuous person."
This Yan Hui is the "virtuous person" in Confucius's mouth "Who knew it would end short-lived, which is regrettable. This bandit is a gangster, not a so-called kind person. Who knows that he will live a long life.
Is this a human problem?
In hospitals, there are many poor people as well as rich people. In the chemotherapy area, there are many famous people and unknown people. In the funeral home, there are young people, middle-aged people, and old people...
What's more, every day, all kinds of people leave this world because of different problems. Of course, there are many babies born in different families.
There is a saying that is very realistic, The King of Hell tells you to die at the third watch, who dares to keep people until the fifth watch?
Human beings cannot intervene in matters of life and death. No matter how advanced medicine is, it can only delay the time of return, but cannot stop the arrival of death. In the face of life and death, no one’s opinion matters. Only the God of Death is always by our side.
Why do we often say that we should be indifferent to life and death? Why do we often say that we should let nature take its course? It is because we know that since we cannot change the issue of life and death, we might as well live every day.
You must know that if you live one more day, you will earn one more day. Only by always being grateful can you live a humble and happy life.
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In this life, there are many things that may seem like coincidences but are actually inevitable.
is a person who usually has very good grades. At worst, he can get into 211. Who knew that he failed the college entrance examination and only passed an ordinary exam. This is the path he wants to take.
graduated from college and left the society. He was originally going to do this job, but who knew that he was repeatedly frustrated and went to another company. As a result, was just another path he took that he didn't expect.
Along this road, he met different friends and encountered many misfortunes. At the same time, he also gained love, started a family, got married and had children, and entered a new life track.
I wanted to stay in this company, but who knew that I was laid off at the age of 35 and had to look for work everywhere. When I reached middle age after working so hard, I actually started a business and became a small boss...
There are too many things in life, all of which are full of uncertainty. Just like every choice we make, it seems to be our own choice, but in fact, the thoughts that flash through our minds are all hints from fate.
Because of this, there are seven to eight billion different lives in the world, and not everyone is the same.
Just imagine, if everyone can make their dreams come true, wouldn’t everyone be rich? It is precisely because everyone's destiny is different that there are bottom, middle and high levels, poor, rich and rich.
This is life.
text/Shu Shan Youlu
