has been creating on Toutiao for a while, and is often asked questions by Aite. Many of them are seeking comfort. I am really baffled. Am I a psychiatrist? Why do I need psychological massage?
Moreover, in daily life, when we encounter problems, don’t we have to face them head-on? Even if I get a lot of comfort on the Internet, what's the use?
thought about it, and these people probably think like this:
So, sometimes it is emptiness, sometimes it is a weak mentality, and sometimes it is just showing off!
The forest is big and there are all kinds of birds. It is normal for the birds to come and poop.
When encountering such a problem, just scold him when you are in a good mood. It is impossible to comfort him. Don’t give him any illusions, just tear the reality of society directly to him. Each of us is a human being for the first time. Who can Who can be comforted?
You can be as pretentious as you want at home. If you don’t leave home, your family will take care of you and comfort you! But this society has no obligation to help you or comfort you. I think the best way to face it is to face it head-on!
No good results will come from escaping or anything else. Face it head on and solve the problem, even if it makes the problem bigger!
