never thought that one day, I would break a penny in half and spend it, and live a life like the person I looked down on the most before. During the epidemic at home, while losing freedom of movement, I also lost the opportunity to enjoy consumption. Every day, I am not studying cooking, but studying cooking. The route I take the most is always the living room - bedroom - kitchen - bathroom, and what I look forward to the most. I always longed for the free life before, and the strongest wish I made was "What will I eat if I can go out!"
As a result, the lockdown was unblocked and I was free, but I had no desire to consume. I looked at the items I once longed for, food. , I didn’t have the impulse I imagined. What I thought most about was how much it would cost, how much rice, oil, and noodles the money could buy, and how many days it would last for our family of three!
In fact, I am not the only one who has made this change. Many people have experienced this change. They have transitioned from "retaliatory consumption" to "habitual saving". No one knows which one will come first, tomorrow or the crisis? No one knows when the black swan event will come. Worry and panic about the future make people anxious!
Many people who invest boldly lose their courage for no reason, and their insecurity deepens. Some netizens said that there are thunders everywhere now, and no one knows what is going on:
The house bought by a friend was in ruins, and he cried when he asked me if it would be useful to file a lawsuit;
A primary school classmate borrowed more than 100,000 yuan from an online loan Yuan, the collector got my phone number for some reason, turned around and asked me if I was his father;
The safest deposit in the past was also scary. Depositors clearly deposited money in the bank but could not withdraw it. Seeing that it has become a waste;
For the sake of the child's future, the tens of thousands of yuan in tuition fees saved for the child in educational institutions have also been wasted.
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Someone asked: Can you still bear it? Still able to bear it! You have to carry it even if you can’t bear it!
In the past, if you had money, you could spend it freely. If you want to buy a house, you can buy a house. If you want to buy a car, you can buy a car. Even if you really have no money, you still have credit cards and Huabei; but what about now? Prices have risen too fast. In the past, a tank of gas only cost 200 yuan. Now, with a tank of gas costing 200 yuan, a tank of gas costs 500 or 600 yuan. I dare not eat or spend. I truly understand that making money is not easy!
Someone said, isn’t there an information card? You have a credit card, but do you dare to use it? Don't dare! I’m afraid I won’t be able to pay back the money! Not only does it affect your own credit and credit report, it may also affect the next generation.
Some people say that difficulties are temporary. The dark night will pass and dawn will eventually come. But no one knows how long this dark night will take. How to get through it is our biggest anxiety. Bankrupt industries will be affected, and everyone Can't escape!
The insecurity about the future has aggravated people's anxiety. The cruel reality has broken people's illusions, and the past days seem to be gone forever. Because of the epidemic, many people have the opportunity to calm down at home and no longer be affected by external noise, feasting, and false reputations. They can re-examine themselves and face themselves, thereby discovering their true selves, adjusting their mentality, and pulling themselves back to In this simple life, there is a sense of down-to-earth and solidity.
This is real life. It won't delay its arrival because you're not ready, nor will it lower the difficulty because you're afraid.
Faced with this reality, we can only face it with strength. Some netizens said that this is the real life. Even without the influence of the environment, everyone may encounter a trough in life. You can live a good life and you can still live a hard life. The river of life has its ups and downs, and how you live it all depends on your choice.
Only when you learn to be in awe, calm your mind, be prepared for danger in times of peace, and have hope in the midst of difficulties. Everyone wants to be happy and live happily, so how to consume and how to live should not be affected by mood.
It is because of experience that you know what is most important and what are your necessities. The past is only for the present. Although it is fun, it does not give you the opportunity to grow, and even hinders your progress, leaving you in a Comfort zone, contentment, no sense of crisis. This sudden alarm sounds your relaxation and confusion, forcing you to change from the external environment.
has changed from "retaliatory consumption" to "habitual saving money", and even some souso. Although this is just a change in behavior, it is your understanding of life, your thinking, and your response to the outside world.
