In real life, men and women should never touch on underground feelings outside of marriage. Those feelings will be exposed accidentally and are not worth "flying into the flames". For middle-aged people of the opposite sex, if their feelings are kept secret, they will not be reco

Men and women in real life should never touch on underground feelings outside of marriage. Those feelings will be exposed accidentally and are not worth "flying into the flames". For middle-aged people of the opposite sex, if their feelings are kept secret, they will not be recognized by others and must be rejected. In today's society, some middle-aged men and women have no sense of propriety and like to play clandestinely. This behavior is very dangerous. When people reach middle age, they must be responsible for their relationships and cannot rely on their own desires. That would be irresponsible to the family as well as to themselves.

It is often difficult for middle-aged people of the opposite sex to express true feelings when they have underground love affairs. They are just greedy for the tenderness of the opposite sex, but do not want to lose their original feelings. Once each other breaks through the bottom line and has close contact, they will no longer be entangled. The two people will reach a certain tacit understanding that they will not be together, but will leave separately. Because they know that once the relationship is exposed, they will pay a heavy price. Therefore, middle-aged heterosexual relationships outside of marriage will not last long.

When people reach middle age, their relationships should be stable, but marriages are often not as happy as imagined. Unhappy marriages will breed some extramarital ambiguities. Although they may not all turn into extramarital affairs, they are not a good sign for the marriage. When people reach middle age, they do not object to interacting with the opposite sex, but they should not have fantasies about underground love. Interactions with the opposite sex will always be a "disruption" to marriage. Interactions with the opposite sex in middle-aged people must be done within a certain range. Many people cannot resist the temptation, which makes their marriages burn into flames. Cheating, affairs, and underground affairs make marriages fragile.

Friends are easy to make, but soulmates are hard to find. When middle-aged people meet a soulmate of the opposite sex, they can solve problems and enjoy the world of culture, but they must not develop underground love. Friendship is like water and tea. This is the rule for middle-aged people of the opposite sex. Only in this way can the relationship last longer. There is an unforgettable white moonlight in many people's hearts. In the dead of night, they can't help but want to shed tears. But that white moonlight can only exist in memory, and what we see now can only be similar, not the same. When a person reaches middle age, even if his marriage is unhappy, he must not engage in underground love. That is the beginning of the tragedy of the marriage!

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