I often hear people advise women: You must marry the person who loves you, not the person you love. This sentence is spoken from experience and from the bottom of my heart. But often, women are always crazy about love. I think you must marry love. Or lie to myself and say that th

I often hear people advise women: You must marry the person who loves you, not the person you love.

This sentence is spoken from experience and from the bottom of my heart.

But often, women are always crazy about love. I think you must marry love. Or lie to myself and say that the other person just loves me.

Even if you have seen many shortcomings before marriage, and have even been hurt, you still go through fire and water.

In fact, no or very few loves are equal. There will always be one party who loves more, or who is born or forced by life to be more able to endure hurt.

It is obvious that a person is at an advantage in marriage. It is not a man who talks about respecting his wife and tells the whole world to hand over his salary. This is not the essence. The essence of love or respect is reflected in everyday life.

1. If a man yells at a woman in public or in front of relatives. This man definitely doesn't respect you. Because of disrespect, I can do whatever I want, regardless of your face.

2. After the quarrel, the man refused to bow his head and let the woman lick her wounds. In essence, such a man doesn't want to make the other person happy. As long as his emotions are well vented and unpleasant words are said, it is best to deliberately say them loudly to outsiders. He doesn't have you in his heart at all. Or at most on the lips.

3. Go online at any time and use all your summary skills on women. A little thing can sum up a lot of shortcomings. Don't discuss things as they happen, but make arbitrary conclusions based on your own emotions. To a certain extent, this is PUA.

4. I know that the woman is in a bad mood, but I refuse to give him any guidance, thinking that this is hypocrisy. Female compatriots, believe me, he definitely doesn’t love you, and may even be very annoyed with you in his heart. Recall, was he like this when he was passionately in love?

Woman, if you are unmarried, you must marry someone who loves you. Don't be stupid and must marry love. Because many times what you call love is actually wishful thinking.

Because love is really not important to men, especially after marriage, or it is only important to a very small number of men who value love. Such men are rare and hard to find.

Find someone who loves you and put yourself in the initiative. After the quarrel, you can go to sleep with peace of mind. Because you are the winner. Only such a woman can live freely.

I hope that all girls can marry a love that goes both ways and walks a little slower. Live with self-respect and freedom!