I am Brother Hui, and I meet you in the emotional world every day. I have a story, do you have wine?
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Foreword: There is a sentence in the article "Zhuang Zhou Tests His Wife" called "It is difficult to draw a dragon or a tiger, but you know the person, the face, but not the heart ". When you actually experience it, you will find that these two sentences really accurately explain human nature. Although it is only a short fourteen words, it embodies the philosophy of life.
We will meet many people in our lives, and we will deal with many people, and we will always have various intersections with others. We have classmates when we go to school, colleagues after work, and friends we play with. Among them, those we think we have similar feelings for are treated as friends and let them come into our lives.
Although we can roughly judge a person's general personality from his appearance, some people have a good appearance, some have an evil appearance, and some people look quite decent. However, it would be a big mistake to define a person based solely on his appearance. In a complicated society, most people have learned to live with masks, and they have also learned the ability to talk to people and tell ghosts. When there is no interest involved, most people act nice and harmonious. But when there is an interest, people tend to tear off the mask and reveal their true, terrifying faces.
Therefore, when we interact with people, we must not be easily attracted by people's appearance, nor should we trust others casually. You must not have the intention to harm others, but you must have the intention to guard against others.
An 18-year-old girl fell in love with a 30-year-old uncle and was determined to marry him. In the end, it was a dream.
18-year-old Ma Fang knelt straight in front of her boyfriend Yu Jinping’s mother. He grabbed her feet with his hands and refused to let her leave. Said: "If you don't agree with me and your son, I won't get up."
Yu Jinping's mother shook off Ma Fang's hand, trying to escape. However, due to the huge age difference between her and Ma Fang, and the huge difference in strength, she could never get rid of him. Helpless, she said angrily: "Do you want me to die by doing this? Then I will die for you." After saying that, she lay down on the ground and cried loudly.
When reporters and people present saw this, they quickly came over and pulled Ma Fang's hand away. After everyone separated the two people, Ma Fang still refused to let go and pestered Yu's mother. Yu's mother said: "I haven't seen Yu Jinping since the Chinese New Year. I can't help you." After explaining, Yu's mother continued to lie on the ground and cry bitterly.
Later, with the efforts of everyone, Ma Fang and Yu’s mother were finally separated. After learning that her mother was being pestered, Yu Jinping's brother called her immediately. She said to Ma Fang: "You are wasting your youth and time by falling in love with my brother. With your nature, men are looking for you outside." Mistress, now that my brother won’t talk to you, you come to the house to make trouble.”
A phone call from Yu Jinping’s brother shocked the reporter. It turned out that the problem between Yu Jinping and Ma Fang was not a love dispute, but a love dispute. Marital betrayal. The reporter quickly asked Yu’s mother for verification, and Yu’s mother confirmed this fact. She said to Ma Fang: “My eldest grandson is 11 years old, and my youngest grandson is also 9 years old. In two years, he will be almost taller than you. You know he has two sons. , you shouldn’t be with him.”
Then Ma Fang said that when she and Yu Jinping first met, he always insisted that he was single. When she found out that he had a wife, more than half a year had passed. Later, she proposed breaking up with Yu Jinping, but Yu Jinping disagreed. In order to show his determination, Yu Jinping even wrote a letter of guarantee to divorce his wife and stay with Ma Fang.
Then Ma Fang took out the letter of guarantee written by Yu Jinping. When everyone took a look, they realized that it was Yu Jinping's repeated deceptions that kept Ma Fang trapped in the whirlpool of emotions.
In order to understand Yu Jinping's true thoughts now, Ma Fang continued to call Yu Jinping's brother and asked how to deal with it now. Brother Yu said: "Now my brother just doesn't want to play with you, you can figure it out yourself." Ma Fang said angrily: "He means you can throw it away when you've had enough fun, right?" Brother Yu said: "Then Haven't you had enough fun?" Ma Fang cried and said loudly, "I'm not playing, I'm serious!" Brother Yu persuaded Ma Fang, saying that the matter was over and he could only look forward and try to reduce his negative feelings towards her. Influence. Moreover, Ma Fang is only 18 years old and has a long life ahead of him. It is not worth it to cause such trouble for his brother. Ma Fang kept crying after hearing this.
Facing reporters, Ma Fang revealed the real reason why she forced Yu Jinping to marry her. She said: "Yu Jinping is my first love, and I am a traditional person who only wants to grow old with my first man. "Then Ma Fang said that her parents separated when she was very young. She grew up in her grandmother's house, so she developed a withdrawn character. After meeting Yu Jinping, his love for her made her feel warmer in her heart, and she had already regarded him as her own relative.
After a night of work, the reporter reversed Ma Fang's extremely impulsive thoughts and made her realize her mistakes and begin to re-examine her future path.
The next day, Ma Fang and the reporter came to Yu Jinping's home again. Facing Yu Jinping's mother, Ma Fang spoke her mind. She said: "I'm sorry, auntie, I was so impulsive yesterday that I almost went crazy. Such things are simply not within my tolerance."
Ma Fang said she wanted to compensate for the glass she broke yesterday, but Yu's mother said she didn't want her to compensate as long as she stopped pestering her. After all, Yu Jinping had two sons. Ma Fang replied that she could understand the hardships of growing up in a single-parent family, so she would quit and hoped that Yu Jinping could treat his wife well and be a good husband.
The village cadres were delighted to see such a big change in Ma Fang's thinking. The security director immediately handed over 1,500 yuan to Ma Fang so that she could return home smoothly. Yu's mother said to her: "When you go back, find a good husband nearby and marry into a good family."
Ma Fang bowed deeply to Yu's mother and then embarked on the journey back home.
Conclusion: There is a saying in "Zuo Zhuan·Xuan Gong Second Year": " Knowing mistakes can be corrected, and there is no great good. ".
No one in this world is immune to mistakes, especially young people. After a person makes a mistake, it is the best thing to be able to recognize and correct the mistake. I'm afraid that even though I know I'm wrong, I still insist on going my own way and end up with a bloody head, or even take an extreme path.
After decades of life, whether it is long or short, you will always meet a few scumbags. But it was not my fault that I met the scumbag, because he was real. It was only because I was too kind and believed his words relatively easily, thus following his path.
However, as the saying goes, "Eat a cut and gain wisdom", life always grows from failure and matures from setbacks. Only by admitting failure and letting go of the past can we move forward with ease and actively embrace a new life. Ma Fang in the
article is a girl who lacks the love of her parents and grew up in loneliness. Therefore, she is very innocent and desires to be loved and cared for. When she meets someone who cares about her, she grabs a life-saving straw and puts everything on the line.
However, when love is given to the wrong person, the only result will be harm. However, knowing that the other person has a family, yet still igniting hopes and giving him opportunities again and again under his begging, in the end, he can only sink himself deeper and deeper, and finally reach the edge of collapse.
Fortunately, she was able to wake up in time and start a new life.We don’t know if she has really let go in her heart. We can only wish her happiness, joy and sunshine in the future!
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About the author: Brother Hui, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to wake up those drowsy people with his clumsy words.
