Preface:
When many people are young, they have a different yearning for love and marriage.
When we truly find a suitable partner and get married, we naturally hope to be able to stay with our partner until we grow old and face the ups and downs of life together.
But in real life, many couples are unable to grow old together due to external circumstances. For those elderly people who live alone in their later years, they also hope to find a partner with whom they can live together to relieve the loneliness in their later years.
In recent years, many elderly people have become more and more open-minded about twilight love.
By observing many twilight love stories, we will find that not all old people can gain a happy life from twilight love. Let’s take a look at Aunt Luo’s experience!
Aunt Luo’s self-report:
My relationship with my husband has never been very good. The main reason is that he did something sorry for me when he was young. At that time, he was with a woman from their factory. When I found out about this At that time, I really felt very angry. I thought about divorce, but I didn’t have the courage because my children were still young at that time and I didn’t want my children to be harmed. Moreover, in that era, women who divorced would be laughed at by others, so I just I have been holding back and never divorced him.
Later, he also returned to his family, and he cut off contact with his outside lovers, but I have never been able to get over that hurdle in my heart. When I think of the things he has done, I feel very uncomfortable, even though he was also He tried his best to be nice to me, but it still didn't work at all.
Later, my wife got cancer and passed away when he was in his 50s. When my wife passed away, I was not very sad. After he passed away, I wanted to find a partner as soon as possible and live the life I wanted. , in order to find a suitable partner, so I went on a blind date.
After more than ten blind dates, I met Uncle Li. Uncle Li looked very rich. He brought a watch worth more than 10,000 yuan, and he was covered in famous brands. I felt that if I could be with him, At least I didn’t have to worry about money, and Uncle Li was very caring and could tell a lot of jokes to make others happy. I was very satisfied with Uncle Li, so I ended up staying with Uncle Li.
After Uncle Li and I were together for two months, we started living together, and then Uncle Li moved in with me. At that time, I still thought it was strange. Uncle Li clearly told me that his family had a big house, but he didn’t. He wanted to move in with me, and Uncle Li had never taken me to his big house. Usually, Uncle Li would take me back to a small unit. I asked Uncle Li why, and Uncle Li said that in that small apartment I have lived in the house for too long and have developed feelings, so I don’t want to live in a big house. I was also very naive at the time. I believed whatever Uncle Li said and I never doubted Uncle Li.
After Uncle Li and I got together, Uncle Li often asked me to borrow money. At that time, I felt that we were already living together and we were husband and wife, so every time he asked me to borrow money, I did not hesitate. I borrowed it, but later I noticed something was wrong, and then I went to investigate Uncle Li. The results of the investigation made me very angry. Uncle Li is a liar. He is a very poor man. He likes to pretend to be rich in front of outsiders. He doesn’t have any money at all. There is no big house. When I knew this, I felt very sad. I didn’t expect that I would meet such a man. Later, I asked Uncle Li to pay me back the money he owed me. Unexpectedly, he said that was what I should do. Yes, he also said that since we got together, we were husband and wife, so it was right for him to spend my money.
He is really a bad person. He can say such things. It is really shameless. I broke up with him a month after I started working with him. He didn’t even give me any money after I broke up with him. Give it back to me. Now I plan to go to court to sue. I can't give him the money without knowing it.
Author's point of view:
Remarriage is indeed a very troublesome matter. Before remarriage, you must carefully consider the other person's situation, especially the other person's character. Don't remarry ignorantly.
