"Son, your father's legs and feet are fine. The doctor said that he can rest in the hospital for a few days. I know you are very busy and don't have time to take care of me. I understand clearly in my heart. Go ahead and do your work. I just gave me a My good friend made a phone call and asked him to come here and take care of him. "
This is what a 70-year-old uncle Li said to his son while lying on the hospital bed.
After the son heard what his old father said, his frown finally relaxed.
Then, he dropped a large stack of money to his father and said, "Call me again when you need money." After
finished speaking, his son waited for a while and quickly took a plane back to Beijing to discuss business with an important client.
The old father was already in tears when he saw his son leaving.
thought to himself, how could he have any good friends to take care of him? But when he saw his son coming after a long journey, he didn't want to bother him, so he made up a lie to give his empty heart a little bit of hope. Just comfort.
Uncle Li knows clearly: When you are too old to move, you must not expect your son to provide for you in old age. You must know that money is more important than family ties.
When you get old, as long as you have enough money for retirement, you can live a free and easy life without worrying about food and clothing.
If you say you have no money and expect your children to accompany you, you are totally wrong.
Or else say: Young people today are not willing to get married, let alone have children. Why is this?
The reason is to save enough money for retirement, so that you can live more freely in your old age.
What is this all about?
Don't worry, please pay attention to the editor, and ask me to tell you this emotional story.
This 70-year-old Uncle Li is from Zhejiang, and his name is Li Chuntian.
He originally thought that his life, just like his name, would have a bright and bright spring. But I never imagined that I would become a "difficult person" in a troubled autumn due to my illness.
It turned out that when Li Chuntian was 22 years old, he met a girl from a neighboring village through someone's introduction.
This woman was three years older than Li Chuntian. At that time, Li Chuntian did not agree with the marriage at all.
Because parents and matchmakers have always said that girls who are in their third year of college have gold bricks! In this way, he reluctantly agreed to marry this woman.
The next year, Li Chuntian's wife gave birth to a son. Because at that time, the country implemented the family planning policy of late marriage, late childbearing, and fewer and fewer children, the young couple only gave birth to one son and never had any more children.
After having a child, the couple still had no basis for their relationship. However, after having a child, Li Chuntian could no longer think of anything else.
Li Chuntian works out of town all year round, and his children are brought up by his wife at home.
When he was 40 years old, Li Chuntian's wife suffered from chronic asthma. Helpless Li Chuntian had to return home to take care of his wife.
His wife is sick, and Li Chuntian cannot make money. After returning home, the conflicts between them have continued.
When Li Chuntian's parents saw their son's bad temper, they said to him: No matter how hard the suffering in life is, you have to endure it. Who can have no conflicts in their family? Should couples communicate when they encounter conflicts?
Until the age of 62, Uncle Li's wife's condition continued to deteriorate. After being sent to the hospital, she was not rescued and eventually left the family.
Uncle Li did not feel very sad about the death of his wife. But in Lao Li's eyes, the death of his wife is clearly a relief.
Just after finishing his wife’s funeral arrangements, Lao Li’s grandson was admitted to college again.
At this time, the son called his father and asked him to come back to the city to take care of his grandson.
Without saying a word, Lao Li quickly packed his luggage and arrived at his son's residence in the city.
In Lao Li's consciousness, his son is his only hope. Having a son will make him feel like home.
Just like that, Lao Li stayed at his son's home for more than 7 years.
After the grandson went to elementary school, my daughter-in-law picked up and dropped off the child.
Uncle Li thought of going back to his hometown.
Uncle Li said: During the more than seven years of living with his son, he wanted to do all kinds of housework well. He was afraid that his daughter-in-law would dislike him for getting old.
Uncle Li has never interfered with the affairs between the couple.
In short, in the eyes of his daughter-in-law, he is still a competent father-in-law!
Uncle Li knows that when people get old, they will become annoying.
My grandson just poops and urinates, and his daughter-in-law will not find it objectionable. If he says that he is old and cannot take care of himself here, do you think that his son and daughter-in-law will still serve him like this?
Therefore, it is said that those who understand current affairs are heroes, so Uncle Li quickly left his son's home.
After returning to his home, Uncle Li's life was quite regular. Every morning when he got up, he would go to the stream beside the village, watch the sun shine on the stream, and enjoy the joy of the sun shining on the stream.
Sometimes, he also takes a walk to exercise. In terms of diet, I always eat lighter meals from rural areas.
Once people age, their legs and feet no longer obey their own control.
One day, when Lao Li was mopping the floor at home, he accidentally dropped his foot. Although he was conscious, he could not stand or walk.
Uncle Li had no choice but to crawl to the bed, pick up his cell phone and dial 120.
After arriving at the hospital, doctor Liu took photos of Uncle Li's legs and feet and said: Your right leg is fractured and you must be hospitalized.
The doctor immediately notified Uncle Li's son. When his son came over, it was already midnight.
When Uncle Li saw his tired son coming, he felt warm love in his heart from time to time.
seemed to feel that he had someone to rely on.
What he didn't expect was that something his son said made Uncle Li feel completely cold.
"You are so old and you are careless in everything you do. Can you still be like you when you were young? I have told you before that you should not be brave, but you just don't listen. It's better now. It's a stretch. We are all so busy, how can we have so much time to take care of you!"
The son answered a few more calls while talking.
Uncle Li can see that his son is indeed very busy.
He knew in his heart that although what his son said was inhumane, it was indeed a real situation.
To be honest, Uncle Li sincerely hopes that his son can accompany him. After all, it is the time when he needs his son the most.
However, Uncle Li suppressed his anger and said some words of comfort to his son.
smiled and said to his son: It's okay, just don't worry, the doctor said it will be fine after a while. I have already called my good friend and asked him to take care of me...
So, With the scene at the beginning of the article.
The moment he watched his son turn around and leave, Uncle Li's bitter tears fell involuntarily from his eyes.
Uncle Li had no other choice but to hire a nurse to take care of himself.
This nurse’s surname is Shen, and he seems to be around 40 years old.
After Master Shen learned about Uncle Li's condition, he cared for him even more meticulously. Until the day he was discharged from the hospital, Master Shen took care of Uncle Li like a relative.
For this reason, when Uncle Li was discharged from the hospital, he gave Master Shen an extra 1,000 yuan as a thank you!
Master Shen said nothing, but Uncle Li took his hand and said: Xiao Shen, I can see that you are a good person. In my rarest time, you are like a relative and have always been with me. By my side, taking care of me.
What my son couldn't do, you, the nurse, Master Shen, did it.
When he was in the hospital for treatment, Master Shen often video-connected Uncle Li's son and daughter-in-law with a smile, saying that they could both work with confidence and that the master's health was fine.
As the saying goes: A fallen leaf returns to its roots!
Yes, nothing wrong. Uncle Li knew that he was old and could no longer be by his son's side.
A golden nest or a silver nest is worse than your own doghouse.
As a result, Uncle Li had no choice but to return to his original hometown in the countryside.
After arriving in his hometown, Uncle Li understood that when you are old and unable to move, money is more important than family ties!
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