The mother of two children chose to commit suicide by drowning herself in a river because her husband failed to persuade her to play cards. It is so heartbreaking. Before leaving, I left a message: I have worked very hard to live like this. I'm sorry, I love you, but I can't change you. When I live with you, I am tired with two children every day. I hope you can come back. Help me, you are eagerly looking forward to getting dark, but you go to the meeting after get off work.
I was tossing and turning in sleep, guarding my child and waiting for you. After you came back, you kept failing to help me, and you picked on me and scolded me. I suffered so much. I'm gone. Please be kind to our two children in the future. Since you can't get out of the pain, let me disappear into the pain.
Seeing this, you can imagine how heartbroken and desperate this woman is. Can she abandon her lovely child, the parents who raised her, and despise her own life?
This marriage ended because of the woman's death. In this marriage, what exactly does marriage bring to women? Marriage, what exactly is it for? Are you looking for someone to give birth to a child, and then tying yourself up in this shackles called "home", with endless housework to do, endless criticism to listen to, hard life to criticize endlessly, and endless bitter tears to shed? ? ?
The death of the woman caused calls from all walks of life. Some people said: "If a woman has children, she must be rich and ask a nanny to help with housework and take care of the children." Others said: "It would be great if their family had a good mother-in-law. This A young mother will not choose death to escape reality." Others said: "This man has nothing, so he should be nice to his wife. How can he let himself be so irresponsible and ignore his wife and children? What’s the point of marriage? ?”
A mother said that she experienced the days when she had to take care of her children without anyone to help her. Eating meals was like a fight. She waited until the children fell asleep to cook. Take care of the children right away. Many times, the food is burnt and thrown away. Every time I go out, I carry a large bag full of baby milk powder, milk bottles, and diapers. I have to take the baby with me when I go shopping every day and go to the supermarket. The baby is healthy, but it will be more difficult to deal with if he gets sick. A frail and frail woman suddenly became a superwoman who could overcome obstacles, ride the wind and waves, and turn around at high speeds because she became a mother.
This has caused many children who have been only children since childhood and have never experienced any hardship to see the abyss of pain that has no boundaries. It completely breaks their bottom line, collapses and despairs, and the solution they think of is: just leave.
So, a good marriage is not about you earning money to support the family, or me being as beautiful as a flower, but about you being considerate of my hard work, understanding your difficulties, being gentle, understanding each other, and working together to build a beautiful home. In this way, only by growing old can we truly enjoy the ups and downs of love. There are still many young men and women who don't know how to cherish, say evil words to the people they love deeply, and use the cruelest daggers to kill the people they miss most? ? ? ?
