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For the elderly, having a wife by their side in their later years is the happiest thing, so even if they no longer have a wife, they will find a remarried wife. Originally, finding a wife in old age is also a good thing, but the two But they broke up after not being together for a few days.
A 58-year-old Aunt Li cried: "He is shameless." The 66-year-old man responded: "This is a wife's obligation." What on earth is going on? Next let us take a look at the following story.
Narrator: Aunt Li is 58 years old
I am 58 years old this year. I retired two years ago. Originally, I wanted to reach 60 years old. After all, I am still in good health. But because of my wife’s illness, I had no choice but to I resigned and went home to take care of him, but in the end my wife still couldn't survive and passed away six months later.
Since my wife passed away, I have been very sad and sad every day. My relationship with my wife has always been very good, and we have never had many quarrels. Even if I am wrong, my wife will take the initiative to admit it, and I will never do it. It will make me feel wronged.
Now that he is gone, I often cannot accept the fact that he has left me. I also hope that this is just a dream. When I wake up from the dream, everything will go back to the past. But I know that this is not a dream, it is real. I just Be able to take the facts seriously and accept your wife's departure.
Later, after traveling for a period of time, I slowly came out of it. However, it was also because of my wife’s departure that my body became worse and worse day by day. I had to take medicine every day to maintain it. If I didn’t take it, The medicine made me feel uncomfortable all over, so I decided to change my life. If I can't continue like this, I must find a life that suits me. Only in this way can I live a happy life in my later years. Otherwise, if I really can't live more than two years, I can go down and stay with you. My wife.
At that time, I didn’t think about finding myself a wife. I just thought about how to live a fulfilling life every day. Later, I exercised every day, danced in the square, and even learned painting at home. I've done it all to pass the time, and I think it's okay, and I'm quite happy.
Until I met a man while doing square dancing, he was Lao Zhou. His appearance completely changed my life. At the beginning, I just regarded him as my friend. When chatting with him , quite interesting and very humorous. He is several years older than me. He is like a big brother. He chats with me and often comforts me. He gives me a lot of comfort and makes me feel that it is good to have his company.
At that time, I thought it would be good to have him as a friend in this life. Who knew he actually liked me? It surprised me. When he confessed his love to me, my heart skipped a beat. I really never thought he would. He likes me, and I thought he was just like me, just treating me as a friend, but he said that he liked me when he first saw me, but he was just afraid that I would reject him, so he started as a friend. , listening to what he said, I felt quite touched. He would actually consider my feelings. Very few men can do this.
Later, I decided to be with him. Originally, I thought it would be nice to have a wife to accompany me in my later years, and it wouldn’t be so boring. But who would have thought that we broke up after only being together for a week. In this week I also saw his true face clearly. At that moment, I also understood how hypocritical men can be, and I found that Lao Zhou is really a thief. In order to win a woman's heart, he can say anything against his will. , it’s really too much.
When we first got together with him, he promised me that he would treat me well in this life and would never let me be wronged. However, after we got together with him, he made me very disappointed. Not only did he treat me badly, Well, instead he treated me like his free nanny.
After I got together with him, I moved to his house to live with him. In the first one or two days, he was quite good to me, and he would also rush to do the housework. But after the third day, He started to make me do housework, and even asked me to pay for living expenses out of my own pocket. I mentioned it to him several times and asked him to give me living expenses, but he always said that we were all a family and there was no need to care. Everyone's money is the same. I have never seen such a shameless person who asked me to spend my own pension first and then spend his.
He even often asked his children to come home for dinner. Every time his children came, they would ask me to buy this and that. The things I picked were all the most expensive. I really didn’t want to buy them at the time, and he didn’t give me any money. I paid for my living expenses, but when I first got together with him, I also thought that we were a family, and if we treated his children better, we wouldn’t have so much trouble in the future, so I would buy back whatever they wanted.
I thought that if I did this, they would treat me sincerely, but who knows, no matter how much I paid for them, I would always be an outsider in their eyes, and Lao Zhou would not stand by me. , I also feel that all these things I do are what I should do. When his children make things difficult for me and bully me, Lao Zhou will not stand by me, let alone take care of me, but help him. The children said together that mine was not the case.
I have never been so wronged. Even when I was living with my ex-wife, he never made me feel so wronged. I really couldn’t bear it. Originally, I thought I would find a wife who could take care of me in my old age. He relied on me when he was young, but he not only bullied me, but also treated me as his free nanny to take care of his family, and he didn’t spend a penny on me. Such a man is simply too much and not worthy of me being a caregiver for their family. After so much effort, I was unwilling to settle for anything, so I decided to break up with him. Living with such a man would only bring endless bitterness and grievances. It was too tiring. Not only did I get nothing, but I also lost everything. I am scarred, so I might as well be alone and feel more comfortable.
I never thought that the two of us would break up after living together for a week. To be honest, I feel a little regretful about our relationship, because before we became partners, we were quite happy getting along. Yes, but I didn't expect his true face to be so hateful and outrageous.
When I was arguing with him, all the people in the village gathered around and pointed at both of us, not knowing what happened. Later, people in his village came to ask me what happened? So I told him: "I have never met such a shameless man in my life. He was not willing to pay for anything. Not only did he not give me living expenses, but he also asked me to be his free nanny." He came to serve his whole family, and even asked me to use my pension to provide for his whole family. Tell me, such a shameless man is so shameless."
After Lao Zhou heard what I said, he was also very angry, so he scolded me: "If you are with me, you should be the one to do all this. Whose wife is not doing it?" These things, you are so fussy about trivial things and say I am shameless, do you have the right to say that? This is what you should do and it is your obligation as a wife."
I really have never met such a shameless person. I was too lazy to talk nonsense with him. I just picked up my luggage and didn’t look back. I swear that in this life, I would rather die alone than to look for him again. Honey, none of these men are good. Instead of being angry with these men, it is better to live well alone, so that so many things will not happen.
Conclusion
Women can find a wife in their later years, but they must keep their eyes open. If possible, don’t find a wife. After all, people cannot be judged by their appearance, and sea water cannot be measured. You can never understand a man. nature, so staying away from men is the best solution.
