I saw a video in which a girl told how she went to the south to work with two girls from the same village a few years ago. The three of them rented a room together. However, they failed to find a job for many days and all their money was spent. The real When the mountains and riv

saw a video. A girl told how she went to the south to work with two girls from the same village a few years ago. The three of them rented a room together. However, they failed to find a job for many days and all their money was spent. Really When we are at the end of our rope.

The girl gritted her teeth and sold the only valuable mobile phone her father had bought her for dozens of dollars. The three of them finally had a full meal. When they were worried about what to do next, they saw a recruitment job in a certain factory.

Fortunately, everyone passed the interview successfully. The girl wanted to borrow one of the girls' mobile phones, insert her phone card, and call home to report that she was safe, but the girl hesitated for a long time but refused.

When they arrived at the assigned dormitory, the two girls were assigned to the same room and she was in another room.

She didn't have a quilt when she slept at night. Her kind roommate took off his own quilt cover and lent it to her, while two friends she grew up with bought quilts and mattresses behind her back.

It turned out that she was the only one who really didn’t have a penny, and the other two people were even wary of her.

The girl said that she had never been so disappointed.

From now on, I don’t dare to make friends again, for fear that my sincerity will be betrayed and that I will be hurt again.

What happened to this girl may have happened to many people. You treat the other person as your best friend and give your heart and soul to it, but in the end you find that this friendship is worthless to the other person, and they even think you are stupid.

In fact, this is the reality of human nature.

You treat others as friends, but it does not necessarily mean that others will treat you as the most important person in their lives.

If you make friends with the mentality of equal exchange, most people will probably get hurt in the end.

Because the expectations for friendship were higher, but in the end they did not achieve the results they wanted, so they felt disappointed and hurt.

I advise you not to have too high expectations for friendship.

A friend of mine started a business a few years ago and became prosperous and made a lot of money.

He has an unruly temperament and is forthright. Whenever a friend is in trouble, he never gives a discount. He has even helped some people and never even passed the IOU for a loan.

He believes in the beauty of human nature and always thinks on the bright side when things happen. However, in the past two years or so, due to environmental factors, it has become increasingly difficult to do business. The situation is precarious, the pressure is great, and the capital chain is almost broken.

His wife advised him to clean up all the money he borrowed to alleviate the current difficulties. The friend thought over and over again before he made up his mind to call the people who lent him money. However, before he opened his mouth, several people complained that money was hard to make and money was tight, so they couldn't pay it yet.

Really had no choice, his friends came to ask for money. Unexpectedly, his so-called friends actually fell out with him...

When he borrowed the money, he was groveling, but when it came to paying back the money, he was arrogant... .The despicability of human nature is fully exposed.

If you have anything, you will be sick. If you have nothing, you will have no money.

When you are really poor once, you will understand what a true friend is.

Those who are friends with you on weekdays and say they are willing to help you at your expense are likely to turn against you when they find out that you are poor. Because they are afraid that your poverty will affect them, and that you will become a burden to them.

So, don’t have too high expectations for your friends. Unless you never ask for help from others, you will always have a lot of friends.

Everyone eats, drinks, and is lively. After the fun, it’s enough to go their separate ways. Don’t put too high demands on anyone.

Only in this way, you will not encounter the so-called disappointment, let alone be hurt by the so-called friends.

When your definition of treating friends is different, your mentality will naturally be different.

A colleague wanted a friend to help with a mortgage loan but was rejected. As a result, the colleague blocked the friend on the spot.

He said, "What kind of friends are these? At the beginning, we always said, 'We share hardships and share blessings', but we didn't agree to such a small thing."

But, is mortgage a trivial matter? Not to mention friends, relatives around you may not be willing to help. After all, this is a risky matter. If something goes wrong, how will others live?

Colleagues put it lightly. The concept of friendship is to help your friends as much as you can while ensuring your own interests.

However, there are often people who insist that their friends put themselves in a more important position. With this mentality, it may be difficult to gain friendship.

Because it is impossible to make friends without conditions. Maybe you think this is too pessimistic, but once you are used to seeing the warmth and coldness of human relationships, you won't think anything of it.

Sanmao said that between friends, small things and favors should be fulfilled. Excessive demands and excessive demands are the fastest shortcuts to deliberately losing friends.

My own requirements for treating my friends, if it is within the scope of my ability and does not require much effort, just help me. Don't expect how your friend will repay you. After all, what he thinks in his heart may not be what you think.

If you want a friend to help, do things properly and don't miss any of the favors and etiquette in the industry. Don't feel that you don't need to be too particular just because you are a friend.

After all, you are not the other person, and you know how others think.

It is enough to be a human being with a clear conscience. It doesn't matter what others do, the worst is that we will have to deal with each other a few times, suffer two losses, and forget about each other in the world.

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