Author: Xuan Xiaolei Picture: Internet, please contact us for deletion if there is any infringement ▼ People who have watched "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much" will feel that "boys will definitely take the initiative if they like someone." But after watching Zhang Wansen i

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People who have watched "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much" will feel that "boys will definitely take the initiative when they like someone."

But after watching Zhang Wansen in "Twinkle Twinkle Star", you will find that "boys may not be able to take the initiative if they like someone."

There is no way to do this. There are many factors. For example, Zhang Wansen also tried to take the initiative, but the girl didn't notice it and mistakenly thought that Zhang Wansen who saved her was another boy, so she fell in love with someone else. Therefore, he can take the initiative to do many things for her, but he may not take the initiative to confess her love, because he will also have many concerns, or from his perspective, he does not know whether the girl likes him. If you don't know for sure, or you just guess that she likes someone else, you will naturally not dare to take the initiative.

So, "Will a boy take the initiative when he likes someone?"

In fact, it is not necessarily true, especially when you are young and have never been in love before, when you are in love, ignorant and innocent, you will naturally be shy, cowardly, unable to express what you mean, and insincere. Lots of worries.

Moreover, because I have no experience in love, I cannot easily understand the other person’s mind. In addition, I have not experienced many blows, so I dare not take the initiative and express my love easily. I am afraid of being rejected, I am afraid that I will be mistaken for being sentimental, and I am afraid that I will become the other person’s misunderstanding. The butt of everyone’s laughter, they are also afraid that making a mistake will affect their current life journey.

So from the perspective of a girl, what should she do if she wants to know if a boy likes her?

Think they will definitely take the initiative, so just wait? Do you think they don’t like it because they don’t take the initiative?

In fact, you don’t have to be so absolute. It mainly depends on your own feelings.

For example, if a girl likes a certain boy very much, and to the point where she is absolutely inseparable from him, she will probably not worry or be afraid of anything, and there is no way to just wait for the other person to take the initiative. Instead, she will take the initiative to do something. Whether it's a hint or a tactful confession, you have to take action.

If you are really afraid of rejection, being laughed at, or this or that, it may mean that liking is not urgent or absolute, because those fears mean that there are other things that you care about more.

Therefore, when you are worried about these things, you don’t take the initiative, you restrain yourself, and you wait. If the boy doesn’t take action, you would rather miss it than let go of your reserve.

The consequence of doing this is to protect self-esteem and sense of security, and avoid frustration and blows, but it may also be grudges for the rest of your life. Shouldn't you be braver at the beginning?

Anyway, it depends on your tolerance. If you think you can't bear the failure and sadness of being rejected, just wait for the other party to take the initiative. If you can't wait, don't feel regretful and sad.

If you are confident, magnanimous, and brave enough, you can take the initiative first. However, this kind of initiative should be done in moderation. Don't be too enthusiastic or persistent, so as not to cause trouble to the other party.

For example, take the initiative to chat once or twice, and see if the other party will also take the initiative once or twice.

For example, occasionally give a look to see if the other person catches your eye.

For example, post a suggestive update to see if the other party likes, interacts, or pays attention.

These tactful "initiatives" may also achieve the goal. If you test it a few times, if the other party never responds proactively, it may mean that he has no other intentions for you.

If he occasionally takes the initiative to contact and interact with you, you can go a step further, such as asking if he has a girlfriend, what type he likes, etc.

At this point, he has not responded in an obvious way, which may mean there is no hope.

As long as the other person likes you, you can reveal your true feelings under your "semi-active" stimulation.

If you find it troublesome, you can also ask him directly if he likes you, or just say I like you, it doesn't matter whether you like you or not, I just want to tell you.

Be aggressive, and you will either get a happy ending, or get rejected and lost. Take it on your own, be more free and easy, be strong, and it won't be a big deal.

After all, liking or disliking this kind of thing requires fate, which does not completely mean that you are good or you are not good enough. It does not matter whether others laugh or the person involved laughs, because liking is not a shameful thing. Like it too.

In the final analysis, if you want to wait for the boy to take the initiative, you can give some hints first. If you can't wait, there's probably no chance.

If you don’t even hint at it and just wait quietly for others to take the initiative, then he may not dare to take the initiative.

Understand this, girls should know how to face the guy you like.