Author: Wu-Layer
Losing a loved one may be the most painful thing in the world. But after the loss, in order to make up for the emotion, the choices you make impulsively are often wrong.
Just like Huihui's story, she still believes that her brother's death is not a disaster for the family, but a punishment for her alone.
Almost three years ago, my 26-year-old brother passed away. At that time, the sky in Huihui's family collapsed. Her parents were in tears all day long, and they were so sad that they could not even live.
At that time, Huihui didn’t know how to comfort her parents, because she was also very sad and couldn’t accept this reality herself.
What I didn’t expect was that within half a year, my parents seemed to suddenly regain their vitality. Hui Huizheng felt baffled, how could they figure it out, even though nothing she said was of any use.
Unexpectedly, my mother told Huihui that she had decided to have another son. Now your brother would be back, and our family would not be afraid of losing the relationship.
ha? Huihui was shocked on the spot. Another one? You are 50 years old, can you consider reality? How to take care of her now that she has given birth? Do you have the energy or the ability?
The mother replied: What's wrong with being 50? I saw on the Internet that people over 60 have children. Moreover, your father and I are in good health and can make money, so how can we not be able to support our children? Do not worry! We won’t trouble you, and your life will not change in any way because of our decision.
How could Huihui agree with this irrational decision? Let’s not talk about whether her mother can have children. By the time the child goes to college, his parents will be almost 70. Who will take care of the child, but her sister? But she couldn't possibly bother. She also had her own children and her own family. Why invest your future into something that can be avoided. Moreover, at that time, her parents were also getting older, and both the old and the young were relying on her, so they were going crazy.
So, Huihui tried her best to dissuade her parents from having another baby. If you give birth to a daughter, will you have another baby?
Her parents did not listen to her. After one year of active pregnancy preparation, she actually successfully gave birth to a son. Looking at the tender baby and the mother with white hair after confinement, Huihui really collapsed completely.
She told her parents that she would not help if she had to speak up. This child is not a younger brother, but a trouble. If you gave birth to this child, you should deal with it yourself. Do not affect my current life and family.
Although, my parents answered simply, we will never come after you. We are not old, so what problems can we have?
But in real life, there is no time when you need to help. Maybe once or twice, Huihui can firm up her thoughts. Her parents ask for too much, how can they not help.
In her opinion, her parents are really irrational. They use one son to fill the gap for another son. She doesn’t know if the relationship can be restored. But he dragged his daughter into the water. She really couldn't imagine her future life, and she didn't want to imagine what her home would become.
I really think Huihui is not cruel enough. Her future is probably to take over this brother. After all, at this age, it is difficult for parents to support him. Moreover, why should their children pay for their choice? Huihui is so innocent!
eh! Therefore, most of people's decisions after encountering problems are irrational. What’s the point of having a baby at this age? If you trap yourself and work hard for others, you will not be able to do anything good, and it will be all hardships.
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